If you have multiple Red Pilled men practicing their repackaged operant conditioning on you without your consent, can it lead to your brain being 'confused' and break if every man is using a varied reward system?

princessbubbbles · 2022-09-06T23:59:04+00:00

Elaborate on "if done incorrectly...(etc)". If what is done incorrectly?

It sounds like you could use the book "why does he do that?" You can search the title plus "pdf" to find a free downloadable pdf of the book. It is particularly for rape survivors as well as those who have suffered other abuse by partners. It is also useful to those who were abused by people other than partners. Keep in kind the time period it was written in, this was written during the cusp of when women were more consistently being believed when reporting abuse, so the author does have some outdated statistics and stuff. But it is still extremely helpful.

Rook_Cross · 2022-09-07T00:40:11+00:00

Unfortunately there are evil people in the world who will try and manipulate us to varying degrees and in various ways, and without asking for consent. They are evil to do it, it's not our fault if we have trouble protecting ourselves, but, we have to try and protect ourselves. I would really talk to a GOOD therapist and get a proper diagnosis and ask for books that can help you understand how to deal with your trauma, protect yourself against new trauma (learning what's healthy in a relationship, how to set boundaries, have a healthy attachment style, etc.) and get you started, even if you don't keep on with the therapist. You can also look up videos on youtube on how to set boundaries for starters, or how to heal from PTSD or sexual/physical/emotional abuse. You might try a subreddit on psychology or therapy or relationships to see if they have any resources they can point you to. RP is emotional, psychological and often sexually abusive. It can definitely lead to being "confused". When people reward at random, it's the same thing people with borderline personality disorder do. It does make you confused. I would maybe recommend the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" for a start, by Mason/Kreger. Your library may have it, or you can maybe find a review online of the take-aways, on youtube maybe. Even if the person doesn't have BPD or is a narcissist it can teach you ways to deal with people displaying similar behaviors. It takes time to heal from things like this and build yourself back up. but you CAN do it. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself time to heal. You can learn the skills to have good mental health and you'll get better at those skills in time. Don't worry, it will get better!

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