hi folks . I wanted to know your opinion about the current dating scene with feminism involved in it .

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-08-31T14:35:20+00:00

feminism became a red flag for me

That says it all, tbh.

Feminism is about equality, sure. But their version of equality is different from ours.

SamLBronkowitz2020 · 2022-08-31T17:11:48+00:00

If the woman you’re meeting understands that both men and women experience challenges in life, and that sometimes those challenges are unique to each group, then that’s fine. However, if the woman you’re meeting believes that “all” men, especially white men who seem to shoulder most of the blame, are part of a magical patriarchy and oppress women, then run in the opposite direction as fast as possible. Been there and it’s simply not worth it. You will have an easier time trying to provide logic and rationale to a brick wall.

ruyrybeyro · 2022-08-31T16:27:05+00:00

I would not date a feminist. Problem solved. Life is too short, better alone than in bad company.

Snow-of-the-Frost · 2022-08-31T14:45:25+00:00

Btw quick disclaimer I asked the same thing on "ask men" and almost got banned hence why I'm here. It's weird how a sub specifically for men bans you for asking this 😅

BlackPillMadness · 2022-08-31T18:49:40+00:00

I dated a blue haired vegan feminist for two years.. take my word on this one, dont do what i did. Making a lasting relationship with them is literally an impossibility !

Snow-of-the-Frost · 2022-08-31T18:52:40+00:00

Feminism is no longer about equality. We can’t have true equality and that’s just the reality. When feminist complained about how men on average make more they forgot to add the details about how men do the jobs women won’t do. Physical labor trades.

As far as dating goes feminist influence others to be angry at men. They blame men for all shortcomings like every other toxic group that has ever formed some one must be a villain instead of addressing issues by self reflection. It’s mostly the lonely ones who need validation from the women in high demand in the dating market that are the feminist we speak of. It’s like how dare you think somethings wrong with me because I’m lonely? Look at the girl in high demand who’s lonely/single and growing old too because we recruited her with hate to join our side.

I will never believe current day feminist have the best interest for other women. I’m just going to put this out there and hope my comment doesn’t get removed. Women only have a voice today because a man stood behind them. Feminism has been allowed to become what it is today because men stood beside them.

maxlvb · 2022-09-02T00:54:13+00:00

So I wanted to know how do you think feminism has effected relationships and the dating scene

That's easy, and summed up with one word...

MGTOW

MGTOW is the end stage of red pill knowledge. We understand female nature, and come to the ultimate conclusion that they aren't worth the effort, or the pain.

DarkEnergy67 · 2022-09-13T14:30:40+00:00

I am older and long past any desire to date. If I really wanted sex, I would just pay upfront. At least it is honest.

Bound-Submissive · 2022-08-31T17:38:35+00:00

Yeah, divorce rates have skyrocketed. Clear sign.

No relationship is possible if she is diagnosed with feminism, unless he has nerves of steel and zero self respect.

No peaceful life is possible if there is feminism diagnose.

casra888 · 2022-09-01T01:22:43+00:00

Don't do it. Too much to lose.

billsull_02842 · 2022-09-01T21:50:23+00:00

they just dont want your paycheck they want your paycheck and your job.

Lena_1995 · 2022-09-07T19:08:18+00:00

Feminism ruined dating for me. I've had guys tell be "you won't call the police for hugging you, right?" When we are just friends.

I've also had women judge me for liking a dude, saying stuff like "but is he a feminist" or "you're destroying the sisterhood"

I'm done. It's gonna be a miracle if i ever find a good guy. Not because they don't exist of are all taken, but because a lot of them are hiding and don't want to risk the shitshow

Vulture051 · 2022-09-08T07:43:35+00:00

One thing I think is critical is whether they feel the need to TELL you they're a feminist or if they're just answering when asked. The former is a red flag, the latter isn't.

Most women believe they're feminists. They're not really feminists though.

Langland88 · 2022-08-31T22:51:26+00:00

Well I'll be honest, I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman but she isn't really a feminist. But I will say there was a radical feminist who influenced my dating life prior whether she knew it or not. I had to break from the toxic cycle she created in my mindset because she was pretty much saying all these confusing and contradicting things that made it hard for me to even date women for a while. This radical feminist complained about men for a long time and all I was seeing was her perspective so for a while I was believing that her views on men were the views all women had on men. I eventually broke from this cycle but it wasn't easy.

It's really hard to understand what Feminist women even want in their dating life especially when you have so many of them nitpicking every little flaw or bad thing some man has ever done. Hell there is a whole reddit that we infamously know as FDS which is literally a bunch of miserable feminist women who seem to hate men and yet they somehow that's part of their dating strategy which makes no sense.

For the longest time because of all the misandry inside today's Feminist movement(don't kid yourself all you Feminists who lurk here, your movement is infested with misandry and you're all too complacent and complicit with it), it's made it harder to date women in general. I say this because I don't even know what's appropriate anymore. If you make the first move on a woman, that can be taken negatively. If you even ask some women out, they'll call that sexual harassment. Heck I showed a woman some pictures of some kittens I was holding and that was apparently seen as flirting and I was told to back off.

So honestly, I think modern day Feminism has made dating worse for both men and women. I'm seeing it's becoming a trend for single women to go on Tik Tok and complain that men don't flirt with them anymore and a lot of that has to do with Feminism especially that Me Too movement which was heavily backed by the Feminist movement. It just seems like the only glimmer of hope is a lot of younger women are starting to turn away from the modern form of Feminism and seeing it's a Misandry infested movement so there is at least that.

sas0002 · 2022-08-31T16:13:31+00:00

So, let me get this straight. Feminism is a red flag because of three experiences? If we go with that logic I can confidently say all men are shitty.

zellegion · 2022-09-02T12:50:28+00:00

i don't put much effort into it but i've had femninist friends. they did not do well with their boyfriend

Title	hi folks . I wanted to know your opinion about the current dating scene with feminism involved in it .
Author	Snow-of-the-Frost
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Date	August 30, 2022 11:09 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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