I frankly think being traditionally male gets a bad rap but I don't begrudge people for feeling that way because what has been defined and labeled as traditional man isn't it. I don't think a woman's job is in the kitchen, for instance.

Red Pill isn't even traditional male despite Red Pill claims it is. Red Pill constantly bitches about women and the victimization of men when traditional men tend to find solutions and don't resort to endless complaining. For example, many red pill men abhor the idea of providing for a family when that's the descriptor a traditional man did. Many of them think of relationships within sex only when traditionally, a man had to gain the approval and courtesy of a woman's family before marrying her and often they waited till marriage. He had to show utility and actually be someone that tried to improve her life. Red Pill doesn't support any of this. It victimizes men into a select number of attributes and defines masculinity through a narrow filter.

How many times have you heard from Red Pilled Men,"they want a traditional man while acting like modern women." They use this as an excuse to treat women poorly from thinking women have no right to seats on a crowded subway train to having the door opened for them. They'll say things like,"you wanted equality, so you can stand like the rest of us." This utterly selfish attributes that makes treating women well as something that deserves being rewarded rather than simply doing it because it's the right thing to do. But this gentlemanly behavior is what men traditionally did. They don't even think a man should pay for dates and that women should split the bill. Ergo, red pill isn't traditional despite claiming to be.

This also factors into the fact many Red Pilled men look up to idols and would be internet mentors who don't have their best interest at heart much less know them personally. These men parrot a bunch of bullshit like automatons when the most masculine men I've ever met always defined masculinity in their own way and by their own personal standard. They didn't let other men define masculinity *for* them like a bunch of puppets.

It is possible to be a masculine man and still be healthy and not look down upon women. I wish more people understood that.

For any Red Pill man reading I dare you to watch some positive masculine men instead. Check out F.D. Signifier and be open-minded. Maybe you don't agree entirely, but consider his viewpoints.

For fellow black men, here's a video on how we are being objectified by wider society and especially porn. https://youtu.be/RP1YI6Wi6gs

Here's a video on the manosphere: https://youtu.be/s1FkO7Tr70A

I don't agree with every video or everything he says but consider other venues and train of thought.