Keeping text game going...

bigman1090 · 2017-08-25T19:16:45+00:00

There is no such thing as texting game. Chances are you will end up saying something stupid somewhere along the way. You've done exactly that, so have I and do have millions of other guys. Point being. Use texts to just set up the time and place for the date, maybe start a conversation with a fun banter. That should be more than enough

jb_trp · 2017-08-25T19:27:32+00:00

You can text some to build rapport and attraction, but be careful. Too much frequency can lower your SMV. The trick is to keep whatever you text light and fun, and to present you as having forward progress in life (a very attractive quality to women). Be busy and doing cool things, and when you text in between, subtly mention the cool stuff in your life. It can even potentially raise your SMV. Avoid "nothing" texts (e.g. "Hey." or "What are you doing?"). Give the girl time in between to wonder about you too. And don't make the texts too long. Choose quality over quantity. Also, proofread your texts before sending them.

You can plan a meetup for next week if she's one of those people that are very busy. Just nail down some plans without making it a big deal (e.g. "There's a new brewery that opened that I want to check out. Drinks Tuesday night?"). Easy. I once banged a girl off of Tinder who told me she had to have guys schedule dates two weeks out because she was so, so busy (travelled for work, went rock climbing a lot, etc.). The trick is to not come off as needy.

Cheers, mate.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-08-25T23:48:33+00:00

text as little as possible no matter what.

Planning something a week before can show her that you have a busy life and have to plan things days before because you're so busy with your amazing lifestyle. Yes she may potentially lose interest, but she will lost interest as well with you trying to 'text game'.

This is how you do it.

You: "Hey let's grab a drink next week?"

Her: "Sure I'm free next Friday"

You: "Ok, I'll text you next week so we can set something up for next Friday night"

(Wait until next Tues / Wed)

You: Hey-oh! Let's do Friday night at 8pm?

Her: Sure! what did you have in mind?

You: I'll call you today around 5 [I like to call, helps prevent flakes]

(You call her to tell her where to meet you, no more texting)

Wait until Friday

You: Hey I'll see you at ____ at 8, let me know when you're on your way.

Her: okay I will (y)

Then you meet and you fuck.

vandaalen · 2017-08-25T19:45:53+00:00

the less I make it seem like an old school style date

What's that supposed to mean?

TrenGod37 · 2017-08-25T19:59:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4svt8w/a_different_view_on_text_game/?st=J6SAW93W&sh=586aa087

SkorchZang · 2017-08-25T23:07:35+00:00

There's always a way, but don't go there man. It's way too easy to "over text" yourself into a loss before the game even starts. Anything that makes you seem eager kills their attraction for you. Nothing bad will happen if you let her drop off the radar for a week, then invite her out when you're free as usual.

In the meantime try to only talk to her when it's her initiating. Maybe send her a funny kitten pic randomly once.

DentyneWhite · 2017-08-25T23:12:16+00:00

I'm a believer that less is more but texting for logistics only is a bit extreme.

Nothing wrong with occasionally texting/emailing a bit but its way way less than most guys think so keeping to logistics is a good rule for recovering betas Play with it. What u got to lose? Bitches are for your amusement and pleasure and its fine to take an L here and there as you calibrate your own personal game

Title	Keeping text game going...
Author	KushBombay
Upvotes	5
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Date	August 25, 2017 6:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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