Finally lost my virginity with a girl in my college dorm. Not actually in love or anything just wanted poon, so I'm wondering how I'm supposed to handle the relationship now. My friend, who's very successful with women and naturally RP, says that I should straight talk her and tell her I don't want a committed relationship and that the sex wasn't anything more than it was. He says I should do it to avoid bad possible fallout later. I'm not honestly sure if I want it to be a hookup or make her a plate, but how should I handle this?