The purest advice that a man will give a woman, is the advice that he gives his own daughter. That advice is for HER benefit and safety, not for his or any other man's dating convenience.

With that in mind, my advice to the ladies here, is to let men do the approaching. If we lived in a perfect world, then both sexes could approach equally. Unfortunately, we do not live in such a world.

The ugly truth, is that men classify and categorize women....and we do it quickly. I do the same thing.....I'm not exempt from this practice. When I was younger, I would quickly separate the women I met into "Miss Right" and "Miss Right Now", based on the circumstances of our meeting, and her forwardness. That categorization was immediate, and in most cases.....irrevocable. Was I right to do it? Maybe, maybe not.....but that's not the point. The point is....men DO it.

The famous Kama Sutra isn't just a "how-to" sex manual, it also has a lot of ages old insight into the different natures of men and women. What does the Kama Sutra say on this topic? It's message is simple and unmistakable.....

"Men are apt to despise that which is easily acquired."

Don't be "easily acquired", ladies, let him demonstrate effort. Let him demonstrate earnestness, desire, and an interest that is SPECIFIC to you. A little more on the subject....

https://discover.hubpages.com/relationships/Top-5-Reasons-Why-Women-Should-Not-Approach-Men

I'm sure that shy and socially awkward men will downvote me, but if they ever have a daughter, they will one day feel the same!