Backround: I'm an extremely bitter young man who is, frankly, angry at women. I have a few questions and I want to hear you guys' take on them. These are the questions Ive been struggling with. Please don't missinterpret this as a hate post.

-Why are men expected to always solve everything themselves? When men supposedly cause women problems, its up to us to fix it. But when women cause men problems (Pat. court, arbitrary value rating, lying about what they want in guys, bullying us/cheating (boyfriends) for having emotions because it makes them uncomfortable that their human shield isn't as impenetrable as they thought, etc.), its still up to us to fix/cope while they continue to perpetuate said problem.

-Why are blue collar men devalued by women just because they don't make the above-mentioned arbitrary amount of money?

-Why are killings of women by incel shooters black and white? As in people just dismiss the shooter as an evil incel instead of the societal issues that broke him compounded with his mental illness. This foolish thought just perpetuates more violence against women.

-Why are women given movements like "end violence against women", but the mass slaughter of men (which is way higher than women) is globally accepted? Its like were just disposable. Such as in Mexico, where men are roughly murdered eight times more than women, yet they still only care about the small amount of women getting murdered.

-Why don't feminist groups hold women accountable for their actions and try to bring true equality/understanding between the sexes, but instead praise them as angels who do no wrong.

This isn't a hate post. It just feels like I'm automatically branded as evil and expected to fix everything myself, and then put up with being assigned a monetary value when I want a partner. Honestly, all I want is the love and the support of a kind woman, but the dark reality of being left because I can't "support" her anymore hurts. Its seems that most men want love, but most women just want arbitrary, worldly value (money and "social status). This stuff has pushed me to a breaking point. Any help is appreciated.