Man who took his life at Disneyland was trying to leave 'abusive' wife

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-12-07T16:47:33+00:00

No they were mutually abusive you bigots

-femis

Fearless-File-3625 · 2022-12-07T19:58:41+00:00

So many people in https://www.reddit.com/r/TerrifyingAsFuck/comments/zdezhi/chris_christensen_man_who_committed_suicide_at/

are saying he was guilty, this was revenge suicide on his wife, he is typical "nice guy".

Now there is absolute proof, from his daughter, that his wife was crazy and abusive.

Benry26 · 2022-12-07T21:39:25+00:00

A lot of posts covering this have locked comment sections. Firstly, I have trouble sympathizing with men who put themselves in toxic relationships like this to start with, just saying, regardless of the details. And there are a lot of men in marriages like this who are STILL in them. From second-hand experience: having no prenup is going to screw you if you don't want your crazy wife to have any of 'your things' out of a divorce. Also, some men fear retaliation in the form of false accusations like this if they choose to separate, and so they don't do it, or they fear being completely alone, or having a "failed marriage". Blah blah, whatever, man up & leave. If he wasn't guilty, he needed to give the system a chance, even if it is broken as fuck, which it is 100%. However, I think he was scared of being labeled/mischaracterized as something he's not since he was already 'punished' by being put on leave (or in jail for a night) as if he were guilty, and that would have a very negative effect on his reputation. Because our society can be "guilty until proven innocent" not "innocent until proven guilty". And the fact that people will absolutely believe her over him, that he's the abuser when it's actually her, was too much for him to bear and he chose to just move on from this life and make a statement, I guess. All that said, I sympathize with him of course that he was made to feel so demonized as a person over what he claims was just a marital dispute/verbal fight. He seems very emotionally shallow (like most normie men are), and it's unfortunate he was so affected by this. Also, for the record, he can be innocent, depressed about it, and have committed a partially revenge suicide all at the same time. Mostly I feel bad that this was the only way he felt this cause would get any attention. This is definitely a Men's Rights issue that I hope doesn't get swept under the rug, but at the end of the day you just can't continue to associate with psychopaths. You are REWARDING shitty behavior by rushing to build a life with someone who is consistently toxic & abusive, and digging yourself into a deeper hole. You need to take accountability for what you know you're choosing to stay married to and stop and walk away if you're not happy.

edit: In conclusion, suicide is not the answer if you feel like the system has wronged you when you're innocent. Also the enormous amount of men on those bipolar wife subreddits need to be sent this story because this is them in 10-20 years.

Title	Man who took his life at Disneyland was trying to leave 'abusive' wife
Author	NudistofFlorida
Upvotes	130
Comments	19
Date	December 7, 2022 3:51 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/zf4iew/man_who_took_his_life_at_disneyland_was_trying_to/
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