If I've learned anything on PPD it's this: men leveraging anything for sex = you're bad.

  • If you go date a poor women from a globally poor country, you are bad.

  • If you pay for sex from a sex worker, you give women ick.

  • If you leverage an opportunity for a relationship with women, have sex and then don't give a relationship: you are bad.

  • If you have sex with a younger woman because she's less ran through, you're abusing power and you are bad.

  • If you have status and use that to have sex (like Aziz Ansari) you are bad.

  • If you dumpster dive (leveraging your looks) you are bad.

Literally doing anything to get sex as a man and you are bad, that's why men need to not give a fuck what women think and just do what they want.

Edit: not only are men shamed for these, but women doing these to men are celebrated. Essentially the only time men is good (in the eyes of women) is if we

A: Fuck down, enabling female looks-hypergamy

Or B: Marry every girl we fuck, enabling money/status hypergamy.

Don't listen to women, boys.