How do I (25F) meet guys at the gym after moving out of state?

cakelover33 · 2022-11-18T23:00:28+00:00

Go to the gym, check out a cute guy, ask if he’d like to grab coffee or a protein shake afterwards. Ain’t nothin to it but to do it.

Hopefully the guy you find isn’t engaged this time. Lol.

mildly_sexy · 2022-11-19T06:57:49+00:00

Start a conversation about something benign. Ask his name. Next few times say hi. Do it with multiple people so you just come off as a friendly person.

After a few conversations, drop that you’re new in town and don’t have many friends. Ask for a recommendation on a restaurant. That’s an giant opening for him to ask you out.

jbravo_au · 2022-11-18T23:11:11+00:00

Workout in upmarket facility in financial or upmarket district like Equinox. Membership often eliminates men on average wage / unemployed.

Upscale gyms in major cities often run social events which membership can attend.

Stay fit, feminine, friendly and in better condition than most members and you’ll be noticed inside and outside the gym.

kkat02 · 2022-11-19T04:50:19+00:00

It’s a numbers game, the more people you talk to the quicker you’ll meet somebody.

When you go to the gym walk in and engage with people. Walk confidently, smile, and make eye contact with people. Say hi and wave. You may feel silly at first, but just realize they’re the stupid ones for sticking their heads in their phones. You’ll meet people this way and also seem more inviting.

Talk to everyone, not just the attractive guys. This will get you used to chatting with strangers. It’s the gym so don’t be a chatty Kathy, but just simply asking if somebody is almost done with the equipment and if they can let you know when they are done goes a long way. They may initiate more of a conversation. Try to be light hearted and make a joke out of it. You want to be open and inviting.

If you see somebody doing an interesting workout, ask them about it.

Essentially you are trying to build rapport and seem friendly so more meant are interested in engaging without fearing of being turned down. You may build friendships and if you become friends with a cute guy, don’t be afraid to make the first move. You don’t have to be dramatic and ask them on a date, but during one of your daily conversations just ask if they want to join you in getting a protein shake afterwards. Ask with no strings attached. You are getting that protein shake whether they come or not, you are just simply extending an invite.

I don’t think gyms are the best place to meet somebody but those are my tips.

Expensive_Hotel3558 · 2022-11-19T22:36:45+00:00

Be honest about your looks and who can you attract and retain. Also don’t be scared of shooting your shot and possibly being rejected, it happens

Heinous_Hyena · 2022-11-21T17:35:46+00:00

Bend over

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just wiggle your butt a little

Title	How do I (25F) meet guys at the gym after moving out of state?
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