TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

  • Subreddits

      Popular

    • /r/askTRP
    • /r/TheRedPill
    • /r/MarriedRedPill
    • /r/MensRights
    • /r/MGTOW
    • /r/PurplePillDebate
    • /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
    • Other

    • /r/AllPillDebate
    • /r/AlreadyRed
    • /r/altTRP
    • /r/AntiFeminists
    • /r/askFDS
    • /r/askMRP
    • /r/askRPC
    • /r/becomeaman
    • /r/BlackPillScience
    • /r/Chadfish
    • /r/Divorce_Men
    • /r/EverydayMisandry
    • /r/ExRedPill
    • /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
    • /r/FeminismStopsWhen
    • /r/GEOTRP
    • /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
    • /r/MalePsychology
    • /r/Male_Studies
    • /r/MenSupportMen
    • /r/MGTOW2
    • /r/MuslimRedPill
    • /r/newTRP
    • /r/PussyPass
    • /r/PussyPassDenied
    • /r/RedPillBooks
    • /r/RedPillParenting
    • /r/RedPillWives
    • /r/RedPillWomen
    • /r/RedPillWorkplace
    • /r/RPChristians
    • /r/seduction
    • /r/ThankTRP
    • /r/TheRedPillStories
    • /r/trpGAME
    • /r/TRPOffTopic
    • /r/TrueBlackPillMGTOW
    • /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
  • Blogs

      Popular

    • Dalrock
    • Heartiste
    • Illimitable Men
    • Return of Kings
    • Rian Stone
    • The Rational Male
    • Woujo
    • Other

    • Artful Prudence
    • A Voice for Men
    • Alpha Game
    • Black Label Logic
    • Caleb Jones
    • Captain Capitalism
    • Corporate Machiavelli
    • Days of Game
    • Deep Strength
    • Dicipres
    • Donal Graeme
    • Female Misogynist
    • Free Northerner
    • Gaming My Wife
    • Good Looking Loser
    • Hawaiian Libertarian
    • In Mala Fide
    • KillToParty
    • Kill Your Inner Loser
    • Krauser PUA
    • LaidNYC
    • Married Man Sex Life
    • NO MA'AM
    • Omega Virgin Revolt
    • Pook's Mill
    • Random Xpat Rantings
    • Red Pill Theory
    • Red Pill Wifery
    • RedPillDad
    • RedPillDoctor
    • Seasons of Tumult and Discord
    • Sigma Frame
    • The Feminine Woman
    • The Futurist
    • The Masculine Principle
    • The Modern Man
    • The New Modern Man
    • The Obsidian Files
    • The Power Moves
    • The Private Man
    • The Red Pill Room
    • The Red Quest
    • The Rules Revisited
    • The Spearhead
    • Troy Francis
    • Wintery Knight
    • Young Man Red Pill
  • Books
  • Dictionary
  • @TRParchive
  • Please help TheRedArchive stay alive

Male victims of domestic violence 'too ashamed' to come forward - and they don't get equal treatement says councillor

JohnKimble111

December 25, 2022
668 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.yourthurrock.com/2022/12/14/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-too-ashamed-to-come-forward-and-they-dont-get-equal-treatement-says-councillor/
Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

PDF TXT EPUB
Share
Share Tweet Reddit Email
Post Information
Title Male victims of domestic violence 'too ashamed' to come forward - and they don't get equal treatement says councillor
Author

JohnKimble111

Upvotes 668
Comments 15
Date December 25, 2022 7:25 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/zv4pca/male_victims_of_domestic_violence_too_ashamed_to/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-too-ashamed-to.1145772
https://theredarchive.com/post/1145772
Red Pill terms in post
domestic violence
Top posts by JohnKimble111

Women Should Have to Register for the Draft, Congressional Commission Says

6700 upvotes
March 25, 2020
/r/PussyPassDenied

BBC admits its viral “women write better code” story was fake news

6298 upvotes
December 28, 2016
/r/MensRights

Gender pay gap in modelling sees men paid 75% less than women

6153 upvotes
February 8, 2018
/r/MensRights

Toxic Masculinity

5904 upvotes
March 10, 2018
/r/MensRights

After feminist cry sexism over BBC pay, official review uncovers more underpaid men than women

5789 upvotes
January 31, 2018
/r/MensRights

Controlling girlfriend, 22, who starved and stabbed her partner, banned him from her bed and took over his Facebook account is jailed for more than seven years

3826 upvotes
April 16, 2018
/r/PussyPassDenied

'If you tell anyone I've cheated, I'll ruin you': Cambridge don is cleared after his PhD student fiancee accused him of assault 'to get back at him' for calling off their wedding after she had affair in Galapagos Islands

3770 upvotes
September 16, 2017
/r/MensRights

Amber Heard loses bid to get $50 million defamation suit by her ex Johnny Depp thrown out

3737 upvotes
March 28, 2020
/r/MensRights

Comments

[–]Gjaukulf407 80 points81 points82 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

He was offered a Premier Inn room... is that it? A room at an Inn, that's it?

Not a therapist, not someone to talk to, not even a hug I bet.

And people talk about "male privilege" smh.

[–]manicraccoon 36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's genuinely disheartening.

[–]JohnKimble111[S] 41 points42 points43 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He’s actually fared far better than most. The main government funded charity for “helping” make victims is a radfem organisation and it’s actually merely an offshoot of an organisation whose focus is perpetrator programmes (but only for male perpetrators of course). When make victims call the “helpline”, the call handler is trained with a “men are bad” mindset and their main goal is to try to convince the male victim that he’s somehow the perpetrator of the violence/abuse. The “charity” can then make extra money be putting him on one of their lucrative perpetrator programmes.

Finally, the organisation will then publish stats on how many make victims they put onto perpetrator programmes and cite thus as proof that men are lying about abuse. Such stats have been used in debates in the Scottish Parliament for example in attempts to deny help to make victims.

[–]manicraccoon 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugh. That's disgusting. I know I'm not contributing to the discussion but I am just pissed at such people.

[–]FormentGreen 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just a reminder that cops and prosecutors don’t give a single flying fuck in the universe about an abused male.

[–]ThatGIRLkimT 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is happening

[–]Different_Weekend817 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

this has to change. my best friend was so physically abused by his father when he was a child that he barely has any memories of his childhood now due to all the trauma. there's no shame in being a victim of abuse, lads.

[–]GarrettSOS 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Am I your friend? Jokes aside- I, at 27, am just now seeking help with unraveling the abuse I experienced by my father. My memory of childhood is just little glimpses here and there. The memories flood back while I sleep. I couldn't tell you how many times I've woken up screaming in a sweat. I've been told the average person has 1-2 nightmares a month. I have at least 3 or 4 a night.

I'm finally seeking help, but it's not easy to open up and tell someone anything. The times in my life I've shown any weakness emotionally I've been taken advantage of. Anyways im rambling so I'll leave it here.

[–]TeamLenin 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They don’t. Source: first hand experience.

[–]jacksleepshere 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Post on menslib.

[–]Aimless-Nomad 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And of course society is filled with bitches like this one.

[–]thomas_gabriel88 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whether or not its true I can't confirm but I've read alot of articles where male victims of DV talk about experiencing domestic abuse from women and alot of them said when they called a DV helpline they were actually told they were just calling because they were abusing and trying to cover it up. And also alot of them were mocked and gaslighted they were told things like " I think you're overreacting to the situation" if that's the case no wonder they're afraid to come forward.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Feminists, leftists and Democrats are trying to silence men's voices by pushing their toxic agenda. This kind of thing will definitely happen again under their oppression.

[–]jacksleepshere 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Neither party are willing to help men.

[–]ThatGIRLkimT 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It has to change. The victim deserve its justice

Browse all authors
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter