I will keep it short.
I had an plate about 6-7 months ago whom I nexted pretty hard because she was getting to pushy on commitment. She was wanting to sleep over, kept calling my mom her mother in law (no she never met her), kept dropping hints, constant texting and sending nudes while I'm trying to work, etc. Basically being a pain the ass. The sex was good but not great so I just said next
Fastforward, about a week ago I get a text from her asking if I was okay after the hurricane. Being the nice guy I am said "yes I'm find." Over the course of a couple of weeks she sent a few more, so I decided... WTF, lets get together. I suggested we go see a movie I have been wanted to see, then back to my place tomorrow night.
Her response was, I will let you know, I have to finish some homework (yes we are grown ass adults, she is 30... some people do go back to college). My first instinct is... WTF. I was just not going to respond and find someone else to go with.
Question is should I tell her to never mind I will find someone else, or should I just say something else?
EDIT: Or should I do what I have done... don't respond at all?
EDIT EDIT: I didn't respond, she texted me back 45 mins before the movie, asked if it was too late to go with me. I said not if she meets me there because I was out the door. She showed up, we watched the movie that I was going to anyway, then went back to my place and we fucked. I know there was a lot of talk on here about what a plate is or is not. Or how you should treat a plate, woman, or human. Thanks for all your advice. Basically I did what I wanted, didn't give a shit what she thought, then I fucked her. I am not really sorry if that makes me a bad person.
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