Help an older bro getting out this oneitis

zndas92 · 2017-09-21T21:53:40+00:00

You have a wife and your life sounds pretty good compared to the trauma alot of Bros here deal with. Your not developing oneitis for this bitch. Your bored of your sex life with your wife. You want variety and your playing up your lust as feelings and infatuation. Break out the hot sauce slather your wife's ass crack with it and spice up your sex life. Don't ruin a good thing for 15 mins of lust with some big butted how. Or do if that's the kind of guy you are. We all get bored but realise that's what it is.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-09-22T01:28:57+00:00

Don't eat your honey where you get your money. Never worth it for any mere woman, generally the better looking they are the less they have to offer you or the world besides eye candy.

Go home and gorilla fuck your wife. Then have a beer and reflect on all your sucesses and low points in your life.

Then relish in your power as a successful knowledgeable older dude and tell the office slut to fuck off next time she gets overly friendly with you. Not in so many words. Then bust her chops relentlessly. Know that you're better than her in every way that matters and she's utterly beneath you.

I_VII_VI_VI_VII_I · 2017-09-22T00:24:04+00:00

Tough one. I can kind of relate. I'm 32 though. A bit younger. You have 2 choices as I see it: fuck her or go about your life and ignore her somewhat... treat her as any other coworker. But stop the hamstering. That's female shit. It won't get you anywhere. Even worse, she'll start to sense your attraction and will in turn become less attracted to you. She's a dumb female. But she's also a human, and humans want what they can't have. Once she knows she can have you, you've got about 3 or 4 days to fuck her, in my experience.

There's also the don't shit where you eat mantra. Banging a coworker can get hairy as fuck. She's there the next morning. And you're not gonna wanna see her. Then the morning after that. And all day. And every day after that. Make sure it's worth it. As soon as you fuck her you're gonna find her infinitely more annoying.

You know the deal man. And you know women. You're just coming here looking for reassurance because you're feeling weak. AWALT. THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. You know what you're getting into. Some nice pussy and an orgasm. Then afterward, likely a ton of headache.

Triadis3 · 2017-09-22T02:28:24+00:00

For a few months there was an entertaining series of posts from u/Grahambell35 that pretty much describes your exact situation.

For months this guy agonized and deliberated, despite mountains of advice to the contrary. He wasted months of his life over this one girl....

Read his posts from the beginning... all the answers you seek are contained within.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-09-22T15:06:18+00:00

Let's just say that a 25 co-worker ( in LTR herself) is extremely "enganging" with me...

Let's just say you are probably imagining it.

I never really did anything actually to seduce her or anything.

Is your penis visiting her vagina? Because, if not, you haven't seduced her at all.

a lot of betas orbiting around her also

Including you.

that's the most probable reason she is gaming me so hard.

Is your penis going into her vagina?

The problem is: I'm nearly 40, in a healthy relationship with my wife. If I have any kid one day she will bear them. Sex life is good for the last 6 years, we almost never fight, I'm pretty much living a relaxed life and that's all I want.

How old is wifey? And is she a porker? Porker-in-training?

But this naughty brazilian ass made its effect on me.

Translation: "I'm horny and want to fuck this girl. Pls, asktrp, validate my decision to step out on my wife!"

After thinking about the possible outcomes, there is absolutely no way a relation with this co-worker can lead to anything positive. In the worst case, I can ruin my mariage and my job.

Finally, some grown-up thinking.

Please help me rationalize and get out this bobby-trap. I almost invited the girl to eat something today ( and I know she'd say yes instantly ).

Unless it was your cock, 2 co-workers having lunch signifies basically nothing.

I must interact with her everyday since we work on common projects ...

Oh, you should totes bang her...what could go wrong? /s

Thanks to let me your best recipe to cure oneitis as an adult.

I'm a grown-ass man. That's my recipe. I'm also not married - and wanting to continue to sample the menu is an excellent reason NOT to get married. You did. Live with your decisions.

Scurvemuch · 2017-09-22T15:17:29+00:00

how many times has she come into your office, rested her hand on your shoulder, leaned into you, and whispered

"wanna fuck?"

in your ear?

If none, then she ain't that into you

darkwingduckdunn · 2017-09-22T05:28:56+00:00

Dont fuck her man, but tell your wife you could and it might get you some extra credit

Title	Help an older bro getting out this oneitis
Author	throwveryfaraway333
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	September 21, 2017 9:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/71mf9f/help_an_older_bro_getting_out_this_oneitis/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/help-an-older-bro-getting-out-this-oneitis.114818 https://theredarchive.com/post/114818

Comments