How do you stay on top of your shit in an LTR? Mainly, how do I know my approach skills and ability to easily tease and sweet talk women (which I spent three years establishing) won't fade

Torabor64 · 2017-09-25T05:48:24+00:00

Yes and you should do it while out with her. She goes to the bathroom and tells you to wait here? Walk away to the bar and game up a girl, minus maybe kino. Get that competition anxiety running through her brain and you won't end up with a celibate land whale.

_the_shape_ · 2017-09-25T07:09:06+00:00

A close friend of mine is very much what would be considered a "natural", but all that really stands behind that label is many, many, many interactions with women - that's it. Anytime he's talking to a girl, there's a discernible sexual undertone (at least to me), and he continues to be like this to very day, even with a wife and two kids - he's never lost 'it'.

You simply have to make a habit of talking up girls with little regard to the outcome - that's all. Jump out of the "must approach" mindset and try slipping into one geared around having brief conversations with random girls about anything and everything. You don't have to gun for the close, but explore other avenues, like trying to get them to laugh, trying to get them to be engaged with whatever you're saying, trying to get them to reveal some details about themselves etc.

jm51 · 2017-09-25T13:59:59+00:00

Judging by the experience of myself and other guys I know, the big danger is not having to learn how to game again but not having a strong enough network of males when the ltr/marriage ends.

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