Hey guys.

So, it’s been about 5 years since separation and still not divorced. All of our assets have been divided and it’s basically been a custody battle and her moving goal posts continuously. During 2021 I had a bad rough patch and was in and out of work a bunch. My lawyers have been dogshit and I had no support during this time as my case was transferred around this firm I’m at. Anyways out of fear of jail or whatever I had talked loans out and withdrew savings to pay child support. It was discovered that I overpaid by about 25-30K for the year. Since my ex found that out she had moved the goalpost again and wanted full medical decision making for my youngest and wants to do yet another questioning period. She has been on a witch hunt since the day she was born, claiming she had cerebral palsy and others that had all been disproven. I work out of town so I get the kids every weekend that I’m home. It’s really good quality time, maybe at the expense of my own social life but I could care less. I’m happy with the parenting schedule for now.

So I’m at a crossroads here. It’s been 5 years, I’m so fucking tired of this shit. On one hand I have all the documents to prove my financials on this 30k and probably loosing half of it to lawyer fees and at least another year of bullshit. Or, I’ve been thinking about proposing to her today we both just drop all of it and move on. This woman has been a total piece of shit to me and deserves nothing but the worst. Not sure how to handle this, I feel like i have some leverage to finally end this if she takes the bait and if not I think ide be fine and win my case anyways. She has been a pure lawyer munger bc she’s rich parents pay her bills, and super entitled and has even had disproven claims that I didn’t pay her support for a year. It’s been fucked. What would you fellas do?