Ex LTR has some of my stuff, how do I go about this?

TxnyMontana · 2017-09-29T00:21:59+00:00

Yeah, don't make contact with her, tell her to send your stuff to your place, that a friend of you will receive it. (cause you're busy). Or pick them up at her place and never call her again.

anyway if it's not a big deal (the stuffs she have) forget about them. They hate that haha, they're waiting for you to call

JohnnyKeys · 2017-09-29T00:11:34+00:00

Get your shit and never look back

[deleted] · 2017-09-29T00:25:10+00:00

You know what to do. 100% of people reading this think the answer is obvious and easy. Don't make more of it then it is, call her up ask her to leave all your stuff outside and go pick it up. Do not get drawn into a conversation

confettifella · 2017-09-29T02:41:17+00:00

Have a friend get it if it's really important, otherwise cut your losses

HaywoodJablome69 · 2017-09-29T03:34:15+00:00

Do you have any of her shit? Give it to a neutral party and have them take it over. The implication is then she'll give back yours.

Really though, if it aint worth much then forget it. And make sure you go scorched earth no contact with her.

poisedStygian · 2017-09-29T03:50:58+00:00

If getting your stuff back is essential and the volume of all the items isn't crazy cumbersome I would entertain the idea of having her pack it up somewhere accessible when she's not home (assuming you're on good enough terms that she won't turn it into drama). Then plan to pick it up when the chance of encountering her is practically zero. I wouldn't drag third parties into it.

[deleted] · 2017-09-29T02:03:44+00:00

Stage a home invasion.

Title	Ex LTR has some of my stuff, how do I go about this?
Author	Southfarthingdank
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 29, 2017 12:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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