I just recently found my inner “red pill” and/ or feminine. I have always wanted to be a wife and mother, but fell into the common tendencies of a modern woman (reactive, not proactive.) I rarely let people in simply because of my standards and what I want for my future.

I have recently let a man in that I have a past with, and he did something to me that not only hurt immensely, but also left me feeling like he wouldn’t make a good father to my future children. How do I tell him I can no longer see him in a way that stays true to being a respectful woman? Should I even mention how much he hurt me again?

The old me would have stuck this out, but I want to have a man in my life that makes me feel safe and gentle. I don’t want to be in situations that are beneath what I expect for myself and future leader of my house.