https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/11cyier/access_to_home/ that was the original.

Update: talked to lawyer. He said he could file a motion that would be heard in 6-8 weeks, or he could write (hahaha) an email to her lawyer. I told him not to bother. I have a place I'm renting, and whatever stuff she's trashed is lost by now anyway. She can wipe her ass with the domestic relations injunction and I can get fucked. I hope there is a long game here cause I don't see that I've had a win since this started.