Advice columnist wants woman to leave her boyfriend for not having a job, thinks woman who slept with her teacher when she was 20 should go to the police

havingread · 2013-10-20T00:33:35+00:00

In the unemployment answer I see no issue. Although very presumptuous I don't see sexism and Elli, the writer, seems supportive of both parties.

Again very presumptuous in the second answer, inferring not just possible criminality but stating it in fact was from 'I wanted to be friends with him only, but he kept pushing for it to be a relationship'.

Ellie writes: 'But in reality, and in retrospect, this was different from rejection. It was abuse by a professional who harassed and took advantage of your innocence. You could still talk to police about whether he could be charged.'

Hysterical vilifying nonsense.

TorontoMike · 2013-10-20T04:35:47+00:00

This column is pretty Meh - But I have read this woman's column before and the running joke of her advice is any thing a man does wrong no matter how minor she tell her to leave them - If the woman is a serial killer then the should seek counseling.

But this is pretty standard. over in /r/Okcupid that is what the bitter angry women there tell any woman who has a questing about seeing a guy anymore

rhunex · 2013-10-20T03:06:37+00:00

I don't see an issue with the job thing. I would break up with my girlfriend if she was a lazy, unemployed slob for 6 months. Hell if she didn't get a job recently that's exactly what we would be discussing right now.

Scott2508 · 2013-10-20T19:30:40+00:00

what struck me was the fact the title here was slightly wrong , the guy wasnt even her teacher, at least thats what i got from the read of it

Title	Advice columnist wants woman to leave her boyfriend for not having a job, thinks woman who slept with her teacher when she was 20 should go to the police
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Comments	14
Date	October 19, 2013 10:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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