"Wife cheated. We're now pregnant. Need some advice. : relationship_advice": the shame and embarrassment of a husband worried that his wife is pregnant with another man's baby.

JoshtheAspie · 2013-09-07T08:54:33+00:00

Wow.

I wonder if he can get an invitro paternity test.

I'd really not want to be in his shoose, stay in the marriage and then find out the kid isnt mine after it's born.

PerniciousOne · 2013-09-07T15:19:33+00:00

If I was a member of that reddit community this would be my reply:

There are so many blaring red flags with this woman that you have to really sit down and asses the situation.

You said;

I confronted her in March about her affair. She was apologetic, and wanted to work things out. It was painful but I decided to give her another chance. A month later she was still talking to him. I demanded that we attend counseling, which we did for 4 months. During this time she also got pregnant (with me) and miscarried. We stopped going to counseling when I discovered she was still texting, calling, and seeing him on a regular basis despite my demands that she cut off all contact.

You married the love of your life, and she repays you by meeting another man, emotionally investing in him, going on dates with him, and banging his brains out.

These are things that should be happening to you as your newly minted wife.

You have said that you are going to get a paternity test.

Do not sign any paperwork stating that you are the father until you have had a paternity test. In many states you are deemed the father because you are married.

The biggest and most heartfelt issue that I have is that you still have feelings for this woman who obviously does not truly care about your feelings, and your emotional well being. She is only looking out for herself. You need to protect yourself and your future. Especially if the child is yours.

Title	"Wife cheated. We're now pregnant. Need some advice. : relationship_advice": the shame and embarrassment of a husband worried that his wife is pregnant with another man's baby.
Author	DougDante
Upvotes	19
Comments	4
Date	September 7, 2013 12:07 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1lvxtv/wife_cheated_were_now_pregnant_need_some_advice/
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