So I just had this thought after seeing this post on instagram

God forbid we suggest that women be more brave and ambitious in order to succeed in upper management. That is blaming the victim. But insisting that men be more emotionally open and that it is entirely on them to change is perfectly fine and necessary.

Feminists are basically re-enforcing the stereotype of masculine bravery and strength by insisting that men use their inner strength to let themselves cry and show their emotions, and to bravely ignore any backlash they recieve for behaving outside their gender stereotype.

I would be interested to hear any similar examples of women not having to radically change their own behaviour.