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Former female teacher who groomed and sexually exploited a student and then blamed it on the victim was sentenced to 19 years in federal prison. Female victim: "You are a manipulator and a predator...I always thought predators were scary men. I never would have thought it would be my own teacher"

FSOexpo

March 13, 2023
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/r/MensRights
https://www.timesunion.com/news/article/kristen-hiltunen-ex-bishop-gibbons-teacher-17815442.php
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Title Former female teacher who groomed and sexually exploited a student and then blamed it on the victim was sentenced to 19 years in federal prison. Female victim: "You are a manipulator and a predator...I always thought predators were scary men. I never would have thought it would be my own teacher"
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Date March 13, 2023 6:44 AM UTC
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[–]poptartwith 54 points55 points56 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad she got her justice but where are those 19 year sentences when those teachers groom and molest young boys?? It's usually a probahtion or 2 years. FFS!

[–]JediNinjaWizard 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You mean "enter into consensual sexual relations" with young boys, surely.

[–]McGauth925 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. I'd have to guess that when the victim and victimizer are both female, the sentence is a good deal higher than when the victim is male. Then, you probably have to add in anti-lesbian bias. I suppose we could compare sentences when men victimize boys vs when men victimize girls, to get a better read on that aspect. Well, maybe not, because offsetting that would be the fact that males are less protected, in general. Muddled.

[–]The_Bearded_Cyclist 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I honestly wonder if the sentence would have been different if the victim was male.

[–]AvailableCandidate89 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We know it would be

[–]hawksdiesel 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yes. 100%

[–]CanniBal1320 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

it would surely be a lot lighter. Its a trend that I have observed

[–]GltyUntlPrvnInncnt 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Female victim, more time in prison. Such fucking BS.

[–]pyr0phelia 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Female teacher sexually abused young girl and gets nearly 20 years. Last month a female teacher got probation after getting pregnant from clandestine romps with one of her students. Exactly how do we say with a straight face men and women are equal when this is still acceptable practice.

[–]ladertry 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was about to point out when the victims are male the sentence is usually much much shorter and more Leniant

[–]phoenician_anarchist 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

exchanged more than 20,000 text messages

engaged in multiple livestreamed video conversations

allowed her daughter to stay at Hiltunen's home

I'm starting to notice a pattern with these...

She showed me that when life was overwhelming at times, she was a person I could confide in. A teacher who I could trust.

<rant>

Teachers are not friends. I've heard people say that male teachers are somewhat cold, unfriendly or too strict which is why female teachers are better, but this is how it's supposed to be. Any teacher that tries to bring in personal-life stuff, or be friends with students, or try to make contact outside of school, should be treated with the utmost suspicion, if not reprimanded/fired for being unprofessional. They are there to teach, not to offer consolation or emotional support or moral guidance. The same goes for the employer/employee relationship, they are inherently asymmetrical and unbalanced and therefore cannot be friends.

Hierarchies and relationship structures may seem outdated and archaic to many, but they are very important to understand because there's a chance (admittedly, not a certainty) that things like this could have been avoided.

</rant>

[–]Largest_Half 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This seems to be something that gets pushed with female teachers - i remember at my school the females where essentially friends with the female students.

[–]phoenician_anarchist 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In my experience, this is something that women do in general. It's one of those slight differences that we're not allowed to talk about which leads to many miscommunications between men and women (which could be avoided).

[–]Aimless-Nomad 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well said.

[–]rollinswag 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just can't have sympathy for women like this, she's chomping at the bit to slander men even when addressing her female abuser.

[–]Fryhtan69 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is there a non pay wall version?

[–]GeorgeOlduvai 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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Ex-teacher in Schenectady sentenced for sexually exploiting girl, 15

Kristen Hiltunen, a former teacher at Notre Dame-Bishop Gibbons School, was sentenced to 19 years in prison for the sexual exploitation of one of her students



Robert Gavin

Updated: March 2, 2023 3:06 p.m.

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ALBANY — A former teacher at Notre Dame-Bishop Gibbons School in Schenectady who groomed and sexually exploited a 15-year-old who she had taught and mentored — and then blamed it on the victim — was sentenced to 19 years in federal prison in U.S. District Court Thursday.

Kristen Blair Hiltunen, 37, of Amsterdam, who pleaded guilty in August to sexual exploitation of a child, also received 20 years of supervised release when she exits prison.

The defendant listened in court as the victim and her mother delivered victim impact statements to Senior U.S. District Judge Glenn Suddaby. The victim also addressed

"You destroyed me," the teenager told Hiltunen.  'You ruined what was supposed to be the best years of my life. I trusted you. I defended you. Whenever I heard anything negative about you, I would defend you. I thought you would do the same for me. You are a manipulator and a predator."

As a teacher, the victim told Hiltunen, she was supposed to protect her and keep her safe.

"I always thought predators were scary men. I never would have ever thought it would be my own teacher," the victim said.

The victim, now 17, told the judge Hiltunen was her teacher in eighth grade and again when she was a sophomore.

"She showed me that when life was overwhelming at times, she was a person I could confide in. A teacher who I could trust, a kind teacher -- well that’s what I thought," the victim told Suddaby. "Ms. Hiltunen used her power against me."

The victim said Hiltunen made her feel trapped in a situation that she did not know how to escape. Hiltunen had told her she was the daughter she never had, and manipulated her into believing the abuse was not wrong because she was an adult. 

"She told me, 'if you slip up, I will end up in jail and I can’t survive jail,'" the victim said.  "I was and still am a kid. I didn’t know what was going on. At that point I didn’t even know what the word grooming meant and still kind of don’t. I had no idea what sexual abuse was. I had no idea what was happening."

Prosecutors for U.S. Attorney Carla Freedman said Hiltunen earned not only the trust of the victim but the victim's mother, who allowed her daughter to stay at Hiltunen's home. At the same time, the defendant's husband was stationed out of New York in the military.

Hiltunen used her position as the teenager's teacher to persuade, induce, entice and coerce the teenager into sexually explicit conduct, Assistant U.S. Attorney Rachel Williams stated in a sentencing memo.

The prosecutor told Suddaby that Hiltunen provided the teenager with alcohol, kissed and sexually abused her. They said Hiltunen exchanged more than 20,000 text messages with the victim, referring to the teenager as her "daughter" and "girlfriend" and asking the victim to call her "Momma."

Hiltunen and the youth engaged in multiple livestreamed video conversations on Facetime. Prosecutors said the defendant would sexually touch herself and instruct the victim to do the same on camera.

She also asked the victim to keep quiet about the situation.

But Hiltunen, when later questioned by investigators, blamed the teenager she was abusing, calling her "clingy," prosecutors told the judge.

"In a feeble attempt to justify her actions, the defendant stated she believed (the victim) was missing something in her life and sought out the defendant’s attention," Williams said.

"The defendant further stated (the victim) 'was sleeping over and I was afraid honestly, I was afraid even that would take me to prison, and so I was scared she was gonna tell somebody cause … I was just afraid she was gonna tell, so that’s when I just did whatever she wanted … I was like a puppet. She doesn’t know that cause I just went with it, but I would literally give her anything,'" the prosecutor added.

"The defendant’s reprehensible conduct, in this case, is gravely serious and warrants the requested sentence in this case," Williams stated.

In her victim impact statement, the teenager said she had taken her life back.

"Kristen, I hope you live with this for the rest of your life," she said. "You are the one who will be suffering. You are the one who’s at fault. You did these things to your student. You will forever be guilty."

Hiltunen's attorney, Lee Kindlon, had noted that it was his client’s first offense. He asked for the minimum sentence possible.

“This was not an easy day for anyone in the courtroom. The sentencing guideline range recommended 30 years to life, and my client was sentenced to 19 years with credit for time already served," Kindlon said. "I hope the court and the victim took as sincere my client’s words of remorse and regret and I believe in her chance for rehabilitation."

[–]ShityistDisciple 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Read the article I have not. If I had to guess she most likely blamed the student to try and appeal to emotion in court. This is fucked shit!

[–]FSOexpo[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Good guess, the article said she blamed the victim in court.

[–]ShityistDisciple 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Creepy

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