Hi fellow shitlords!

My girlfriend since 4 months have starting to show indiferrence. No bueno.

The signs started like 2 weeks ago. Being a striving alpha/recovering beta and studying the red pill. Im well aware of the signs, but not exactly how to take actions.

Signs: -She used to call every morning, at lunch, after her work and at night. She did the chasing. That shifted to only mornings and at night. Still every day. Now its only nights. She is taking me for granted.

-Actions: So I used dread. Didnt call, text or answered any of her calls and texts for two days.

Result: -She was devestated. Had like 15 missed text and calls.

So I started taking up contact again after two days...she then starts to distance her self from me again .

So I install dread again for 2 days...and she gets all nervous and starts texting and calling. Initate contact again with her...and its back to same..her not showing that much interest again.

So, this shit has been going on like a roller coaster for 2 weeks now and last night she had party with some closed friends. Very disrepectful. Yes we live in diffenent towns. But a girl doesnt invit men to her like that.

So my questions to you fellow shitlords:

How should I react? We dont argue or anything. She is a cool girl. Not a slut or anything. But her indiferrence, that she takes me for granted is annoying as hell.

What to do?: One part of me feels that when she calls today. I will ask her about her party, was it fun? bla lbla...and ask her:

-" Was there any guys there?" I know it was but by insinuating I didnt know, I will play suprised. I will say that Im not really ok with that. By syaing this Im being proactive (territorial)...not reactive(mate guarding).

-"Did any of the guys hit on you? Made a move?" That is different then asking if something happend. Which is showing low smv.

After this conversation I will install dread agian. But this time for a week. I will turn of my mobilephone until next weekend.

Or...

I just skip all the things above and install dread right now. Cut contact. Not answering her calls, texts or any shit for the whole week.

What should I do?

Update:

Fucked up big time. Did dread her last Sunday the whole day. She got furious. Sent me like 12 messages and by the end of the evening I got a message that said she wanted to break up. I chicken out and called her. Told her my phone was broken and thats why I couldnt answer and she need to chill out. But fuck I screwed up the dread game again.

This week been as you guys can imagine...silent from her. Her interest now is on all time..low. Im going on business trip to her city in 3 weeks and asked her if we would meet. She said maybe. After that I just said goodbye to her. This isnt working anymore.

She then started texted me like 5-6 messages that she´s been reallu busy with studies. Yeah...sure.

I said I just want us to break this up. She insisted not to. She continues with the texting, but no calls.

Fuck! Im such a fool.

I can do two things now:

1) Answer her texts and hope to get laid (my honor and dignity is so low anyway) when we meet in 3 weeks. If she is flaking I delete and block her number. I have another plate Im working on in the same city.

2) I can text her and say that, either we start calling eachother again and keep the texting to a bare minimum. Or dont contact me again. Im not your male texting buddy.