It has been almost a year since the incident. I still from time to time get very angry and upset over it... but today I got so upset I feel I need a place to share it. My accuser posted an instagram post about believing Dr. Ford and believingvictims and about women's voices not being heard. This same woman who's lie has turned my life upside down for the past year.

I am a recovering addict... five months on methadone and have not messed up once. One year ago was a different story I was using heroin heavily with this chick I knew from high school. She rich parents and a car, I knew how to navigate the scene and get her what she wanted. We were fuck buddies.

One night at 1 am she calls me and wakes me up, "Tyler... I want to use... I have cash.. let's go." I relucrently said yes because I wasn't dope sick and I knew my connects would not answer and I would have to go to the spot.

Scoops me, we pick up the stuff, and go back to her parents.

She only gives me one out of 11 bags. When she leaves the room I take two more bags and some valium from her bottle. I felt I deserve more than one for my time alone.

She came back down and counted them. Noticing she was short two she jumps on my trying to pull them out of my hand. She starts hitting me and then steals my wallet, phone, and vape. She wants to trade them back for the two bags. I rip the wallet and phone from her hand. She kept the vape. Then she grabbed a wrench in her bedside drawer (almost like she had done this before). She attacks me a second time and managed to land one blow to my head. I am.bleeding and she chases me out of the house.

I do the bags and valium as I walked down her street and OD.

A cop wakes me up, I say nothing except where I came from and deny to answer questions. I didn't want this chick to get assault with a deadly weapon. They take me to the hospital. Police visit me again and I still refuse to incriminate anyone.

24 hours later police come to my house and arrest me for assault. I am dumbfounded. I never placed a finger on her. They show me pictures of bruises on her legs that were many days old that were actually bite marks from sex. Bruises don't turn black and blue within two hours. They say I have a re straining order. I write down the truth in a statement and ask of she will be charged. They tell me they completely their investigation and I should have answers their questions when they took me to the hospital. They said that what was done is done and I could sue her civilly.

They release me. I text her a bunch saying how could you make up a story about me accosting you. The police report said I showed up uninvited to her house, demanded I be let in, then started doing drugs at which point she asked me to leave, then she said I became agitated and attacked her in which she needed to defend herself with a wrench.

Then she reported me for breaking then TRO. Went to jail for a couple days and got bailed out.

The assault charge was dropped because she failed to follow through but the breaking a TRO wasnt. I am now on probation. One year total.

She texted me six months after that asking if I missed her. I said nothing.

A couple months ago she texted me again and denied ever telling the police anything like that and said he dad must have called for breaking the TRO.... meanwhile I have both police reports!!! She is human scum. Can't even own itm

Making up a story about someone assaulting you so your parents don't find out you do heroin and then telling the police that when they come to your house is the most fucked up thing to ever happen to me. It's worse than snitching. Fabricating a crime and getting someone charged is absolutely disgusting.

I broke the restraining order willfully. I understand why I am on probation. What makes me most upset is that once i tried to tell my side of the story I was ignored and told there was nothing I can do. She lied about so many details in the police report. She said I arrived at her house.... she actually picked me up... she said it was my heroin... it was her... she said i attacked her when I was asked to leave... she attacked Me as I tried to leave.

Her word is more valuable than mine. I will forever be labeled a domestic abuser and will not be permitted to own firearms. She faces no consequences for her actions.

What prompted this post was an instagram post she made holding a sign saying, "I believe Dr. Ford" "#believingvictims". She, a lying scumbag who severely interrupted and brought much pain and suffering to a man's life through lying, is going to a post a #believingvictims on IG.

Give me a break. I understand we have one of the fairest justice systems in the world... law and order keep society from becoming chaotic and out of control... but have been hurt and severely damaged by a woman's lie. I have no voice, no one cares, there will never be jusice. I legally can't even warn other men in her life until I am off probation. I cannot contact her. Not that I want to. She has contacted me twice and I am shocked she even had the nerve.

Men... protect yourself. It can happen to any one of us. Being accused of rape is worse than assault... I can't even imagine that. Record things if you are unsure.

I lied down with dogs and got up with fleas. I own some responsibilty... but I still believe justice was not and never will be served. Womens words count more than ours.

Tl;dr falsely accused of assault by a girl who didn't want her parents to know she was doing drugs. My life has been flipped upside down for a year because of her lie. No jusice for innocent men