If you reject someone, consider giving no explanation. If a guy follows IG models and that’s your reason, don’t tell him. He’ll just try hiding it from the next woman. It’s not a careless mistake that he’ll suddenly regret. Save the next woman some time and gaslighting. 🤝

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Conversely, and this is debatable, if a guy is very nearly ‘hv;’ not emotionally abusive, not sleazy (following ig models counts), not demanding you pay equally, consider explaining then. If it seems it’s within his capability to self-correct, maybe offer quick rationale with your REJECTION (caps because you should still squash it). But if he talks to you patronizingly, follows models on IG, likes Dave Portnoy or Joe Rogan for ex., just disappear. He’s incredibly far gone and 6000% uninterested in rectifying. Anything he says is just meant to get him laid.