Why are autistic incels treated as bad as “sex offenders”?

2021-04-12T14:27:38+00:00

How did you lose your life dream?

Can you come up with some other life goal? You're only 16, your life has only just begun.

What women are "taking advantage" of you? How are they doing so? How are they (or anyone) treating you like a sex offender?

lilycamilly · 2021-04-12T14:52:20+00:00

If you don't want to be seen as a creep or sex offender, definitely don't yell at random women, for God's sake.

Please do remember that you're a very young lad with a looooot of life left to live! If you recently lost an opportunity to travel to Russia, please don't think that's the only chance you'll get. Learning a new language is a difficult and noble passion, and I hope you find ways, whether its in school or on your own, to pursue it.

The approval of women should not be your driving force for the things you do. Pursue your passions, and like-minded people will like and respect you for it. I have a BFA in painting, and believe me, there's a lot of people who think my career path is pointless because there's not a lot of money in it, but I love it, and I'm going to start my Master's degree this fall.

Autism aside, NOBODY has their shit figured out at 16. Even the people that you might think do, don't .

If you feel like the girls at school are giving you a hard time, please don't resort to rage, it won't help you. Be calm, and if you're comfortable, explain to them how autism can affect people's social skills, interests, and emotions. They're plenty old enough to understand that people are wired differently sometimes, and if they don't and still give you shit, they're just genuinely bad people, and their opinions aren't worth caring about. Remember, "those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

I personally believe that all situations in life are best approached with even-keeled sincerity. Be genuine, but don't let your emotions get the best of you when you feel angry. Acknowledge the anger, and let it pass, and understand that not everyone is going to like you no matter what. Be yourself, treat people with the same respect that you would like to receive, and give life time to set things in motion.

HappyRainbowSparkle · 2021-04-12T14:17:35+00:00

Did you just want to go to Russia to get a Russian girlfriend?

2021-04-12T14:41:44+00:00

Look pal, I see you asked this exact same question in other subreddits, so I guess it must be very important to you. The thing with being an incel isn’t that not having sex is bad, but the attitude that is often associated with them. (Regardless of if it is correct or not, people think incels are quite misogynistic and dangerous, since repression leads to violence in many cases). If you want to communicate with women, you have to stop viewing them as “other”. Sure there might be some attitudes that are more common among them, but they are just as much of a person as you are. Never loose sight of that. Being autistic is certainly something that may complicate things, but it doesn’t mean communication and socialization is impossible at all. You might need some therapy for guidance though. If your biggest dream is going to Russia, and learning Russian, you still have many years to do so! So do not give up! You are only 16!! Now as to how women are taking advantage of you, you need to speak up. Talk to your parents and stand up for yourself. You cant expect support if you never do so. I wish you the best of luck pal.

UnicornPenguinCat · 2021-04-12T14:49:22+00:00

You're only 16, you have so much time. You can still pursue your dream, and any other dream you have, so don't give up.

You also have so much time to meet all sorts of different people, including people who you will feel comfortable around. You have lots of time to find yourself and work out who you are. 16 can be a difficult age because a lot of people are still trying to work out who they are and how they fit into society at that age. It honestly is a really weird time.

One very important question to ask yourself is whether people really see you as a "sex offender" or "incel", or if you're just imagining that's how they see you. Just because some idiots on Reddit called you that doesn't mean it has any truth, or that anyone else thinks it.

It's easy to imagine that people think the worst of you when in reality their mind might be on something else entirely. Most people have their own insecurities (even when they look confident) and often that's what they'll be thinking about.. they will be thinking about how other people see them.

If someone has said these insults to you directly though, it still doesn't make them true, it just makes that person a bully.

When you're trying to communicate with other people perhaps just try to remember that you're a good person and we're all just imperfect humans, trying to find our way in society. Be kind to yourself. And know that when you're kind to yourself it's much easier to be kind to others.

hurrycane_hawker · 2021-04-12T14:33:05+00:00

I tried looking for r/PKO

Title	Why are autistic incels treated as bad as “sex offenders”?
Author	Plackz
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Date	April 12, 2021 2:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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