As a male, I'm tired of feeling like an expendable or utility.

onewaydive · 2021-03-24T23:26:48+00:00

I never answer the "what do you do" question ever. At least not seriously. I say things like, " why are you asking" & "I'm a male stripper" or "if I told you I'd have to kill you", or "not this question again, why do women always want to have a job interview with me?"

Also it helps that though I'm a successful man in his 30s with a great job and a home of my own and a fancy car I have no interest in ever dating, marrying or cohabitating with any women for the rest of my life. YMMV.

I just feel indifference, I do not have any negative feelings towards women, I love all my family members who are females, they live me back, and more importantly we RESPECT eachother.

yoitsericc · 2021-03-24T23:56:46+00:00

If you didn't want me in your prime, don't expect me to want you in your decline...

2021-03-24T22:13:55+00:00

Nah. I love it I ask them “So what’s changed now that you decided to talk to me?” Watch them squirm and try to make shit up.

Usually followed by “Well you had your chance in HS (or whatever) instead you decided to no even give me the time of day... now that you’re used up you came to me”

show-up · 2021-03-25T05:27:59+00:00

There has to be sexual attraction otherwise the relationship you think you've secured is in fact an employee-employer or donee-donor relationship.

makosh22 · 2021-03-25T09:05:45+00:00

That's great that you understand that. It's sad when man really thinks that girls after him for smth else but no money when in fact they are after his possessions... And when these girls get him they start making fun of him, knowing that even in divorce they will have a great part of HIS money and none of him himself.

Just a little advise if i am allowed: protect yourself against any unwanted pregnancies when you have fun with smb. Please, It helps to avoid so many problems and unwanted creature in this world!

SaveThyme · 2021-03-24T22:11:24+00:00

I am sorry the women around you are so shallow, you deserve better.

TC18271851 · 2021-03-25T13:27:39+00:00

Yeah. I had a tough life. Building my resume was hard. But simply because of my gender I am seen as an ATM and expected to marry down and attacked for refusing to do so. Women can reject me for stupid reasons and I'm supposed to accept that. But just because I was cursed into being a Man, I am expected to be content with marrying down, despite having a harder life, and women having more opportunities in general. Also I can raise kids better than any woman I've met. So I definitely should be marrying up.

And yeah. Being someone who whored around and now wants to "settle down" with you is not love. It's being used. I'm 25 and have been denied live through and through. I'm not going to wait till 35 to marry a 35 year old whose been sleeping around. That's not love.

I f8cking hate this curse of being a Man. I wish I could be a woman and get a better life

2021-03-25T08:55:28+00:00

Men are seen as expendable in so many ways and dating is all you care about?

Optimific · 2021-03-25T02:58:26+00:00

From my perspective, it is not so much about the money, but rather the intellectual growth. Say I knew you in high school and see you 4-8 years later after the degree. We've probably grown a lot at this point. Many of the guys in high school, I never really knew except on a basic level. But I've found, the older I get and the more I know who I am and my friends, I look for that in partners.

WranglerNo9244 · 2021-03-25T03:21:58+00:00

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hih_h · 2021-03-25T11:07:47+00:00

Ask them questions they're too stupid to know the answer to, watch them make up stuff and laugh at them then send them to the ranch.

Criket · 2021-03-26T02:32:27+00:00

Not only your potential value have increased, but their lowered. Younger, bold and more beautiful girl remplaced them. They fear the inevitable wall coming at them. It's your turn to increase your standards and invest in yourself first.

Title	As a male, I'm tired of feeling like an expendable or utility.
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Upvotes	242
Comments	23
Date	March 24, 2021 10:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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