Privacy in a relationship

MattyAnon · 2017-11-26T15:19:20+00:00

. It's fucking embarrassing

Who gives a fuck. It's a strip club. Quit caring and others will stop caring too.

I don't feel like I can trust her as much now

You can't. She tells her mother too much. Avoid women who talk too much (which sadly is most of them) - you can't trust people like this.

How should I go about this issue I'm having?

Stop telling her things you are not happy her mother hearing, obviously.

There is NO POINT communicating this to her - she won't change, can't change. Women do not learn and do not change, hence verbal communication with them is pointless. If you discuss it with her, her takeaway message will be "He is weak and cares what I do, therefore I can respect him less".

I don't want her parents to give me a dirty look, or even worse say something to me

Avoid her parents, because that's normal and healthy.

Rav_the_slav · 2017-11-26T14:35:52+00:00

Come on now, you know perfectly well that strip clubs are somewhat of a taboo and frowned upon. I, personally, have nothing against them, but we can't ignore the social stigma they have. There's nothing you can do to change her or her parents views on this subject, all you can do is maintain your frame and act like it's no big deal.

Retspihi · 2017-11-26T16:13:34+00:00

Yeah... she has zero respect for you. She shouldn’t have bitched to her parents.

Soft next.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-27T02:05:37+00:00

You're going to a strip club and you're in a committed relationship. You don't see how trashy that is? There is nothing okay about that at all dude. Wow, do I really have to spell that out for you? Where is the respect for your girl? Yo lol, what the fuck? A strip club, my guy... You went to a strip club and you have a gf.

Your gf will always communicate many things about her relationship to her mother for feedback and validation. Deal with it.

COORDOORS · 2017-11-27T09:16:46+00:00

had a girlfriend who used to blab her mouth about fucking everything. can't trust a bitch like that. guess what? every fucking fight no matter what she's gonna run to her mommy and mommy is gonna tell the rest of the family. a negative picture is constantly being concocted against you as long as your dumbass girlfriend can't keep her mouth shut.

backizwack · 2017-11-26T15:25:52+00:00

Noted. Thank you.

RPShitlord · 2017-11-27T14:01:57+00:00

Why spend money on whores who don't put out?

Any half decent girlfriend will give you lap dances for free.

If I was your GF, I would be pissed that you give money to strangers to do what your GF does for free. She was right to tell her mom about it to get some advice.

backizwack · 2017-11-27T15:25:28+00:00

Thanks everyone for telling me what I NEED to hear rather than what I want to hear.

TheOriginalWasBetter · 2017-11-26T17:44:32+00:00

You should be embarrassed about it. Why do you need to pay women to want to be sexual with you?

Title	Privacy in a relationship
Author	backizwack
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	November 26, 2017 2:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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