not sure if this post is allowed, mods feel free to delete if needed!

As a lesbian woman who's newly out and dated so many NVM, holy shit i wish I'd read this sub earlier. It would have saved me so much time!

But recently, I've noticed that I picked up some bad habits from the NVM I've dated & carried them on to the queer women I meet (eg. cheap coffee dates, park dates, fuckboi behavior).

I realized I've been treating women similarly to how men have treated me and it's fucked! I'm taking step back from dating & working on my own mental health & perception of women so I'm not perpetuating the same bad behavior that I've been subjected to.

thanks to this sub I'm leveling up! thanks FDS 🙌🏼