Im a male just looking for someone to talk to.

vozmozhnost · 2021-02-05T11:13:17+00:00

You certainly won’t find what you’re looking for here; this post will most likely be deleted soon because it’s against the rules.

Aside from that, you come across as desperately lonely, way too preoccupied with your “beta” status, hateful, and no fun whatsoever. Do you have anything fun or interesting to offer that would make a complete stranger feel like associating with you?

You say you don’t like most women, you hate 99% of people and you seem to think they’re all the problem. Can you blame people for not just scooping you up and making you feel special and important after you tell them that?

Take it from another guy who had a rough time of it growing up: you’d vastly benefit from a good therapist and probably need a couple years of it at least. That’s the first nice person you need to talk to right now.

Veryanne · 2021-02-05T11:21:38+00:00

Hi, I'm not sure if you're allowed to post this here, and you might get removed soon, but I wanted to take a little time to respond to you. I may not say everything you want to hear nor everything you need to hear.

I'm very sorry to hear what you're experiencing. You must feel so powerless in this. I have a few pieces of advice that might aid your predicament, if you'll take them.

First, a good way to find likeminded people or just nice people, is to do activities where you meet them. Find new hobbies (perhaps online for now, because of covid), you could try a reading group, or dnd, or a group that's learning about photoshop etc. Find a group and be nice to them. Be open and genuine and see what happens.

Next, you cannot control other people or the world you live in. You can control how you live in it. Find activities that boost you serotonin: excercise; don't do drugs; eat veggies; set small goals and meet them.

You might want to try not identifying as an Alpha or a Beta male, no one really is either or. At RPW we usually talk about Alpha and Beta in terms of traits, and a high quality woman is actually looking for a man with a good balance of both: just enough Alpha traits to be and stay sexually attractive; just enough Beta traits to make her feel safe and secure. You can do some research on different traits you'd like to cultivate in order to become the kind of person you'd like to be in a few years and work on them. (Have you ever asked yourself who you'd like to be? If you don't aim, you'll never hit your target)

Have you heard of Jordan Peterson? I recommend reading his book '12 rules for life', if you enjoy reading. If not, try watching one of his lectures or excerpts from lectures on YouTube. You might like what he has to say. You might also not like what he has to say, in which case it might be even more useful to hear it.

Good luck on your journey!

mementoEstis · 2021-02-05T13:20:41+00:00

Bud, I think you have a problem with accepting your own gender.

By your admission you are looking for belonging in exclusively female spaces, while harboring a deep resentment for your own gender, and a burning jealousy for other men.

What you need is a positive male space, strong male role models and positive male interactions.

You interpret male confidence as bullying (Bill Burr is certainly not a “macho man” or alpha, if you called him that he would laugh in your face, he is confident though). I believe you likely have been bullied by your fellow men before, but you also deeply desire that confidence.

You can build that, and it comes from building a positive self image and a healthy sense of respect.

Men are less communal by nature, so finding male mentor ship is a challenge. It does exist though, seek it out. Learn from those men you focus your misplaced aggression against.

The heart of the male experience is confident power. Men are granted physical strength and a straight forward efficiency of action that make them designed to be the shield of the home, and the rock in the storm. You can become that rock and shield, and if you do, you will find a good woman to keep you maintained in your vigil.

Women can’t teach you how to do that, only your brothers can. Seek out that brotherhood and you will find happiness.

Title	Im a male just looking for someone to talk to.
Author	golfisfun1100
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	February 5, 2021 9:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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