Anyone else fill this way

4agreements · 2020-10-20T01:33:29+00:00

I liked being married. We had a good run. Everything in life ends one way or another. I won’t marry again, but I like that our kids were be raised in a traditional environment and that we couldn’t just easily walk out the door when things got tough. Marriage was a good experience for me. I learned a lot, hurt a lot and experienced a large family.

YeTuMamaTambien · 2020-10-20T01:43:19+00:00

For men in todays society, it seems there is not a logical gain to be had... its all risk.so make sure you are sure.. if that is a thing.

Dupreecity45 · 2020-10-20T14:05:14+00:00

Yup, the meaning of the old social contract has been destroyed and it's a huge financial risk that may possibly be lifelong unlike the marriage.

S-A-T-A-N-1 · 2020-10-20T00:37:44+00:00

I agree, theres a reason porn stars and hookers go to hell, it's for me

red_knots_x · 2020-10-20T01:18:51+00:00

No, it's not. It can work just fine, if you pick someone you're compatible with.

tequilalime · 2020-10-20T11:30:16+00:00

It depends in my opinion. I personally think yes it's the dumbest decision that I've ever made and won't do the same mistake again. However, I think this feeling is only accurate for men who like their freedom. The problem I had in my marriage was that I felt I was being strangled, couldn't spend time for myself, couldn't spend enough time with them either because the work was rough in the end we decided to end it.

I'll never get married again I'm happy being a single dad, having all the time in the world for myself and my child. This is much better.

PkDp82481 · 2020-10-20T21:32:37+00:00

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dillinone · 2020-10-20T22:47:07+00:00

Men are told to do everything they can to make it work and women are hit left right and center about how divorce is magical and good. Think of all the movies about how divorce helps a women in life all the talk shows that tell women divorce is good and helps them. It is a terrible social norm in our society today.

TheGuchie · 2020-10-21T21:16:30+00:00

I don't regret getting married even if the outcome was bad. I loved her, we had some good times, some bad.

The fact it ended doesn't invalidate that.

That said I see no reason to ever bring the government into any future relationships.

Deevorceeng · 2020-10-22T17:38:18+00:00

Without a solid prenup perhaps. That's how I feel at the present time.

Title	Anyone else fill this way
Author	banguitar
Upvotes	19
Comments	17
Date	October 20, 2020 12:36 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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