Ex incel, self esteem issues still continuing

Inareskai · 2020-10-05T09:43:51+00:00

This is pretty common - it's the on going thing that happens to a lot of people (not just incels). You're looking for external validation for an internal problem. You were never, outwardly, undesirable or unlovable etc. But you feel that you are - and that's probably not actually a rational feeling (feelings are very rarely rational).

It's one of those times when I offer the cliché advice of - see a therapist. Work through your shit with someone who's trained for it. Because as you've seen - you did all the things trp said would make you feel whole, and it didn't. Strong evidence to suggest that it was never what you needed. External validation helps, for sure, but it can never fix something that's an internal issue.

Comfortable_Intern57 · 2020-10-05T13:44:17+00:00

Please get some therapy, sounds like you need it. Not sure what happened in your childhood that makes you feel that way but you need a professional to help walk you through that and reclaim your self esteem.

Title	Ex incel, self esteem issues still continuing
Author	MurdererKeemstar
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	October 5, 2020 9:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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