So here is the question/issue

when we insist on individual rights,according to my professor,we inflict society with conflicts.

for example,where I live,a wife can demand her dowry whenever she wills.but most of the time she chooses not to.also the husband has the right to restrict the wife's going outs.but he normally gives up this right of his.

in larger scale it can lead to war between countries/dogmatism and problems like that

my question is "is it true that if we insist on our rights there will be a conflict,or can you suggest something against this statement?".