TRP member for several years now. I’ve had a lot of success and my count is high. In my mid 20s now, after years of spinning plates, I feel ready for an LTR.

I have a very great connection with a current plate (she’s been around a couple years now). I do consider her LTR material and there are green flags. However there is one major red one.

She lives 3 hours away. She’s on a contract for her career and it’s difficult for her to just up and leave.

She has said straight up that she’d be willing to drive out every weekend to see me. She also said after a few drinks one night that if it really became serious down the road, she would put her career on hold and move to be with me because she truly desires a future with me.

She’s a good girl man. I’m being mindful of oneitis. But my goal is to raise a family and pass on what I’ve learned to my children. She’s the best candidate yet for this purpose.

I’d love some opinions from anyone who’s experienced something similar or has some wisdom to pass along to me.

TLDR: Potential LTR. Great connection. She’s willing to drive to see me every weekend. Wants a true future with me.