Some of these posts.. ugh.

FortunateBum · 2014-02-28T01:04:38+00:00

This is a good point, but I think the problem is so many guys new to this way of thinking are not good at keeping out of a woman's orbit.

Making a woman who rejected you into a lily pad for jumping off onto other pussy is perhaps an even more difficult skill than anything else IMO. It can be done, but you have to work hard to establish boundaries and understand how to utilize the resource properly. You also have to have insanely perfect frame which I'm sure most newbies wouldn't be able to pull off.

Ideally, you're flirting and interacting with every woman you know, using them all either for their pussy or more pussy, and spending as little time and money as possible in the process.

GaiusScaevolus · 2014-02-28T03:48:48+00:00

Keep her as a friend. Why? Hot girls tend to have hot friends.

Let me tell you why that's wrong. It's an unspoken rule that gets discussed here every so often. I colloquially call it "Fredrick's Law", after the friend who first posited it to me.

"No women will introduce you to another woman of equal or higher SMV"

To do so would be to sacrifice some of her own abundance. Even if she isn't personally interested, she likes keeping orbiter's and options open.

It's similar to the (main) reason women make sh*t wings, they cockblock, because if you go to another chick, they have less.

If a girl has other qualities that you enjoy besides sex and you want to keep her as a friend, that's great. I have a few female friends myself, but don't kid yourself that they in any way will help you find other attractive women.

be_tru · 2014-02-28T02:40:45+00:00

No. A hot girl that rejects you isn't going to be interested in a legitimate friendship. This doesn't work in practice. By rejecting you she is saying you are lower value, and girls don't befriend lower value people unless they can benefit (in this case, validation from knowing the guy wants her pussy.

Actually witnessed this a few days ago with my roommate. He got friendzoned after one date with a girl we met out 6 months ago, and proceeds to go into orbit. Sickening oneitis for her. Recently he started talking to one of her friends and went on a date with her. First girl flips her shit and starts grilling him on "hitting on her friends". I can't tell you how disappointed he was when he APOLOGISED to the first girl and unfriended/stopped talking to her friend. Yes, he could have ignored her and kept going with her friend but I think first girl put her off somehow, she went cold fairly quickly.

Now, does this sound like something a legitimate friend would do? sabotaging his chances with a girl that was clearly into him?

Don't befriend girls you're interested in. The time needed in maintaining your orbiter status is in now way worth it.

Alcoholic_Satan · 2014-02-28T01:05:58+00:00

To each their own right? Not everyone wants more friends, and not everyone wants female friends. Friendships require energy to maintain and sometimes it's not worth it. Nothing wrong with that.

monsieurhire2 · 2014-02-28T07:25:00+00:00

I keep making this point over and over again. You are exactly on point. The great thing about that PUA strategy is that reinforces the abundance mentality of not fixating on one girl, and keeping your options open.

However, keep in mind that you don't NEED girls as friends. You don't want them to turn into crutches or liabilities.

[deleted] · 2014-02-28T08:10:23+00:00

TRP isn't aboit getting laid, though it's a large part of it. It's about self-improvement and for the most part, how to live a happier life.

NikolaTeslaMGTOW · 2014-02-28T09:16:42+00:00

Red Pill isn't about sex at all really, at least not like PUA/seduction/Game are.

Red Pill is just how women work, MGTOW and MRA fall under its umbrella as well which are not about getting sex.

Red Pill is the reality of women, and the branches are different responses by men in regards how to react to the information and women. If you are only thinking red pill is about getting sex, you are missing the vast majority of what red pill is about.

To the actual topic (tired), treat a woman like a man, if she genuinely has interest to you as a human being (unlikely) then a "friend" isnt bad unless you value sex with her over the value of human being.

Also Ive been reading about how women will actively prevent you from getting other women in a sort of competition with other females since she is using you she doesn't want to let you go. So I would say it is more unhelpful overall.

Ive honestly never met a woman I would ever want to be friends with though.

[deleted] · 2014-02-28T20:39:10+00:00

I have a friend. Whenever I'd meet any of her friends she'd give me shit advice or I'd go to the bathroom or go get drinks and I could feel the difference in attitude when I'd get back. Turns out she's been talking me down.

Don't keep girls as friends. Bad idea. Lousy investment.

mussedeq · 2014-02-28T01:33:19+00:00

Either put out or get out.

Title	Some of these posts.. ugh.
Author	Alcoholic_Satan
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	February 28, 2014 12:41 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1z4xip/some_of_these_posts_ugh/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/some-of-these-posts-ugh.11956 https://theredarchive.com/post/11956

Comments