Men, it is okay for us to cry! And don’t let anyone tell you it’s not cool or manly!💪

Dunkolunko · 2020-03-15T11:55:13+00:00

Ok but what men really need is to be treated with empathy when they do cry. It's not men who create a standard of stoic behaviour for men, it's female sexual selection, women actually don't tend to like when men cry, and men who are open about their negative emotions will be socially isolated, particularly from women.

Lethn · 2020-03-15T13:23:28+00:00

Fuck off with this propaganda, men don't have problems crying, women just hate it and are the worst perpetrators of mocking men for crying or talking about their problems and this is a classic example. Who do you think are the ones mostly posting this stuff up on the sub? How about not telling me what I should and shouldn't be doing with my emotions?

PlatinumBeetle · 2020-03-15T14:13:10+00:00

Honestly I don't feel the need to cry. It's not to save face. I just don't feel it.

2020-03-15T17:06:17+00:00

Man Cries

"Oh shut up and quit being so sensitive. The world is made for you white, straight males. Women have it worse so quit hogging the spotlight. You guys get an International Men's Day EVERYDAY!"

Fix that first and then we'll talk.

2020-03-15T23:12:20+00:00

Testosterone is a natural emotional agonist. Men have less prolactin, too, which is the hormone that helps generate tears. We're simply never going to cry as often as women will, on average. It's perfectly reasonable, perfectly natural and perfectly normal for us.

So, why don't we stop with the stereotypical "men aren't allowed to cry" nonsense, which is argument number one that feminists advance to claim that even men are hurt by the Patriarchy. It's not the evil Patriarchy turning men into emotionless robots, and it's not those heroic feminists here to help save us from ourselves by teaching us to be emotionally expressive ... it's bloody normal. We express emotions all the time, and most of the world's most profoundly emotional art - of any type - has been created by men.

As I always say, men are not broken women. They are men.

xNOM · 2020-03-15T15:03:35+00:00

Here's the thing. It's not OK for men to cry. Don't be taken in by this feminist claptrap. Men will always express themselves differently from women because...they are different. Mentally, physically, emotionally, culturally.

2020-03-15T15:56:58+00:00

Every day I have to cry some

TheKingWatson · 2020-03-17T16:55:48+00:00

I actually do believe boys shouldn't cry for everything. Some times i will tell my son to suck it up and be a man.

Depending on what it is.

sasha347999 · 2020-03-17T20:22:09+00:00

Am a man, don't need to be told what is "ok." Whatever I do is ok by virtue of a man doing it, it is something men do.

mgtowolf · 2020-03-15T19:56:30+00:00

Look, if your parents are murdered and eaten by canibals, yeah valid to cry about. If someone makes fun of your nikes or some dumb shit like that and you start crying, no one is gonna respect you. You will repel women, if you care about that sort of thing. Women like to pay lip service to this kind of bullshit, but how many crybaby men you know that got women lining up to hit that?

PlatinumBeetle · 2020-03-15T23:03:55+00:00

If a religious conservative ever criticizes a man for crying quote the bible at them: "Jesus wept".

EvilLothar · 2020-03-16T14:09:17+00:00

WRONG! This is just further feminizing men, and weaking our society.

Yes, men can cry. But if it's not the death of your child, or something equally serious, nobody gives a fuck. A man crying is not useful nor helpful to society. A stoic man that is in control of his emotions is the bedrock of civilization.

xNOM · 2020-03-15T15:21:35+00:00

Why do you want men to grow vaginas?

Title	Men, it is okay for us to cry! And don’t let anyone tell you it’s not cool or manly!💪
Author	sasha347999
Upvotes	18
Comments	26
Date	March 15, 2020 11:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/fj02jt/men_it_is_okay_for_us_to_cry_and_dont_let_anyone/
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