So I went on my first HVM date: he was happy to pay at a nice restaurant, fully appropriate, nothing wrong. We spent hours laughing and having a fantastic time. I’m not looking for a LTR, however I’ve been dating men and testing out techniques I read in this sub. Now that I have an HVM near me, wtf do I do with him? I like his vibe and who he is but I’m not terribly physically attracted to him...😬I could be maybe one day, not sure. But I very much want to test out keeping an HVM near who wants to/enjoys doing things for me, but who I have no plans of having sex with. How do I do this? We both have a good time together, but I don’t know how to finagle this part of the FDS swag...

Your sage advice is much appreciated. 🙌🏼