Discovered my (36M) wife (39F) of 11 years was cheating on me.

Krishna0902 · 2019-11-13T20:59:03+00:00

I did not have a job when my wife left me and sent police after me. Get a job first after doing everything to restrict your wife from taking your daughter to Japan.

Getting a job will help by

Increasing your self esteem.
More finances for legal stuff.
Keeping your mind occupied.
Helping meet more people to share stuff with.

dday_throwaway3 · 2019-11-13T15:23:11+00:00

Way too long. I didn't read past the third paragraph. Here's what matters:

The state you live in.
The age of your children.
The length of your marriage.

Conciliation efforts are a waste of time and money. Hypergamy doesn't care.

As you found out, police do not get involved in civil matters like custody. They only get involved when a crime has been involved. It's simply an intimidation tactic. It does demonstrate that she is being coached.

Status quo is the greatest bias of the court.

> She says via text that she feels threatened by me

She's absolutely being coached. Expect to be served a temporary restraining order this week. They are trivial to obtain.

You need to seek out a family law attorney immediately.

lifestylechad · 2019-11-13T19:42:12+00:00

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Title	Discovered my (36M) wife (39F) of 11 years was cheating on me.
Author	SkeptiCynical
Upvotes	17
Comments	6
Date	November 13, 2019 2:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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