Hello,

I turn 40 in December. I decided to divorce my wife of 3.5 years after being together for 6 years. She turned into a complete piece of shit, and I could not stand her anymore.

Now I am faced with some existential issues. I actually have a huge friends circle, but they are all grown ups now. For example, I just went to a house party today with my brother, sister, and there friends; all of which have infants or toddlers. Its not exactly fulfilling to do that. Actually makes me feel worse. I feel like an alien weirdo in some regard.

I dont really have any friends anymore or at least any in my shoes. I don't want to go to bars anymore. I don't know what my existence is anymore. I have a great job and money is not a problem at all. I'm lost - Anyone felt that way before? Any advice?

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*also my wife still lives in my fucking house, going on month 9 of that.