The RP lifestyle has made me feel more alone and I don't know how to cope with it...?

ConfusedRed · 2017-12-30T05:10:15+00:00

Sounds like you're looking for friendships more than a partner? I think finding rp women is a lot harder than finding rp men. Rp men can easily be found on tinder and elsewhere. You just need to figure out where rp women hang. I think it wouldn't hurt to isolate yourself from these people for awhile. The less contact you have with them the better.

party_dragon · 2017-12-30T15:09:11+00:00

Get fat, cut and die your hair, and get a pig ring to fit in and make them feel good...

Or live your life how you want, righteously by your own principles, and make yourself feel good.

MattyAnon · 2017-12-30T06:23:16+00:00

Personally, I like this city because I'm vegan and love bicycling

Join the local bacon-and-petrol society.

At my office Christmas party,

Christianity is pro-beta and pro-female.

gave me an hour long lecture

Why not walk away?

What should I do (apart from move cities and change jobs) to help myself feel better?

Find like minded people. But you won't find them in the vegan cycling Christian groups you hang out in at the moment.

Moreofmore · 2017-12-30T14:42:15+00:00

You’re not a tree. If you don’t like it there, leave.

iliketreeslikereally · 2017-12-30T18:32:05+00:00

You're in the wrong country.

When I was in the U.S., there were 2 types of men I met: the alpha douchebag and the intelligent beta male.

Unfortunately, finding someone who combined intelligence, education and redpill behavior (or at least views) was nigh impossible.

Back where I'm from, everyone is redpill, regardless of city, intelligence or gender. So you can find your crowd, whatever it is.

Come to Eastern Europe.

Smigg_e · 2017-12-30T09:23:40+00:00

Capitol Hill?

lord-denning · 2017-12-30T15:47:15+00:00

Is this real? Are some cities this bad? Which ones are the worst?

DadOnDabs · 2017-12-30T16:41:23+00:00

The more haters you have the better you're doing.

Here is a golden ticket for you. Next time someone brings up religion, abortion, politics, or ex's, (R.A.P.E.) simply say, "I don't talk about x" and leave it at that.

I never talk about these things because they aren't attractive and don't get me any closer to taking a girls clothes off. The same thing applies to you looking for a partner.

Lukatmeimthecaptain · 2017-12-30T18:26:52+00:00

Portland eh

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2017-12-31T18:22:52+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this. That ultra liberal culture you describe is really taking over some places and is very repulsive. You might have to move.

[deleted] · 2017-12-30T17:05:46+00:00

I dont personally hold the same views as you on a lot but I can say there are a lot of people on all sides of the spectrum in every area. It seems like you are just going off of luck and who you bump into to provide your needs.

If you're further right leaning or conservative there are churches in your area. Even if they arent dominant politically there will be a republican party you can volunteer at to meet people who are probably at least a little closer to you than some random asshole.

The point here is if you're a stranger in a strange land you have to put some effort into building your tribe up.

Also in the end maybe a move is a good idea. Moving because the local culture doesnt suit you is totally valid.

Soberskipper · 2017-12-30T07:29:34+00:00

It's very simple but ironically enough because your a women you don't see it but you can FEEL it. It's all crab bucket mentality. All of it, every last little comment, raised eyebrow and sideways glance. Keep doing the work to improve your smv and when you finally do reach "a 9" they will stfu and heap shits of jealousy driven shame on you in other ways. People who are lazy don't like people who show them up for thier laziness. People who make little effort hate those who do make an effort. Because it shows them up. 80% of the world are sheep. Be a Wolf.

Rudeyyyy · 2017-12-30T05:19:26+00:00

Well first glad that you're going to the gym. That's a start. You mentioned your weight is an issue. I'm telling you straight a majority of men do not like overweight women. I'm sure you know that but i'm just reiterating. So good on you for losing it.

Second- 48 laws of power. Think as you like, behave like others. I don't know what the fuck you guys talk about at your office Christmas parties but i'm usually bullshitting about work or sports or what i'm doing for the holidays.

A couple of women stopped me as I was leaving the gym changing room and told me that I "didn't need to try hard with dresses and high heels because I was beautiful on the inside

Crab bucket mentality. Also you're at the gym. I assume you go to the gym straight from work then get changed yes? You feel beautiful on the inside is the equivalent of us guys getting just be yourself. If I was myself I wouldn't be getting women. Those women want to put you back in your place. They see you trying to better yourself and they don't like it. Fuck em. It means you're doing something right.

You say you get ridiculed for your weight. You're fixing that. Keeping long hair? By any chance are the women insulting you have short hair? These people are jealous of you and want you to go back into your hole. Fuck em. If you want advice i'm sure there's fashion reddits you could visit maybe. But if you have haters you're doing something right. Pick up some hobbies and be social. You can't make friends if you sit inside all day.

I'd say maybe save up and move when you can if its possible. Hope this helped.

Title	The RP lifestyle has made me feel more alone and I don't know how to cope with it...?
Author	ConfusedRed
Upvotes	13
Comments	44
Date	December 30, 2017 5:04 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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