I'm a male in my 20s in and i've never had a relationship before and i've been fine with it, i've been spending my time with my hobbies and trying to get good grades etc. But during this year i've been madly craving for companionship with opposite sex and i think it's starting to take a toll on my mental health.
When i think about it logically, staying alone and doing my own shit sounds better than marketing and changing myself to try and maybe fail getting attention and companionship from women. And cards are stacked against me, i'm 5'8, still have a bit of acne, have a big nose, don't own a car and i don't have that much money to spend on women, and if i look at it logically, other men have more to offer than me, i can hold conversations but i don't want to, i'm told that i'm cold, distant, slightly asocial and look unfriendly, i don't see many reasons why a woman would choose me over other men and i think i'm not in a good place mentally, so i don't even want to try because i don't have much to offer, i don't really want to change and fix myself and i don't want to deal with the whole psychology of women what to do and what not to do bullshit.
But i was desired and approached from women without making any conscious effort before and a part of me wants to feel those emotions again and if i don't start playing the game now, i might think that i wasted my years and i feel like i'm making a mistake and that i'll regret being like this in the future. I'm in college rn and if i don't take my chances while i'm here this whole relationship thing will probably get way harder. And like i said i've been desired by women before and i'm told i'm attractive(no, not just my family), i have heterochromia and girls love that shit, i workout a lot so i have a great body and if i focus and try i can have good convos and jokes with people so despite my many cons maybe it won't be that hard like i'm guessing.
So back to my question, men who are voluntarily alone, do you enjoy your life, do you have regrets, would you recommend me to stay out of relationships and live the way i live, do feelings like loneliness and craving for relationship go away?
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