How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?

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Saw a post discussing the data that 63% of young men are single vs only 34% of women and one guy said many women are in fwb arrangements and don’t consider themselves in a relationship and he had multiple women on rotation so how common is this? See below is by a guy on r/menslib:

“Before I met my wife and got married, I was a contributor to this. 5 to 1 ratio. I didn't even have to lie to them, I just made sure I only kept around the girls that could get along with each other. 4/5 of them stopped dating other people, and that 5th one turned out to be married. They had a group chat, where they would organize who was going to be staying with me on which days. They basically figured out which of the other girls they didn't mind sharing me with so they could double up on the number of days per week they could see me.

I was really straight forward about it too. girl would flirt, I would flirt back, buy the girl a coffee, explain the situation, They would still want to have sex with me. So I would have sex with them, and then next thing you know they're hitting me up for a second date, so I would just introduce them to the group so that they could handle scheduling amongst themselves.

They didn't consider themselves single, they considered themselves part of my harem. I think it probably helped that several of them were bisexual, and the main factor to stay in was that they had to get along. I think it also probably helped that they were all into harem drama shows. both Anime and live action.

Then I met my wife, realized that there was actually a woman out there I would trust to raise my child, got to know each other without sex for 6 months, and then after sleeping with her, I decided to end the rotation so I could take things seriously with her. There just wasn't enough time with 5 other women trying to maximize their time with me. Hell even my wife has invited several women to share our bed, and even mentioned a few times that she wouldn't mind for us to eventually pick up a second regular girl, as long as she was agreeable to both of us, and didn't live with us.

I wouldn't say most women, but many women are totally fine with sharing a guy if it means they get to be with the guy they actually want. When I had the "harem", probably around 1/3rd of the women who expressed interest in me, were fine with the idea of sharing me to get it. And a much higher percentage were willing to sleep with me once before they made up their mind.”