True love is when women inverse gender roles for a man

wes_bestern · 2023-05-27T08:40:29+00:00

This is the way.

fatsackguy47 · 2023-05-27T09:14:38+00:00

very true. if your a chad women will gladly approach you and buy things for you/pay for dates.

FlyV89 · 2023-05-27T11:45:20+00:00

True love is when both genders roles are reversed, indeed.

I've dated and banged lots of women, and I also have lots of female friends, some of whom I've banged and some who don't (yet).

A big, recurring question that always comes up in every conversation with women is "do men always say "yes" to sex?", to which I always reply "Why would you want men to say "no" to you?".

They can't put their finger on "why", nontheless explain how they would make it to a relationship with a man who's unnintrested in them, but the female fantasy is a man that they want to have sex with, a man who wants to have sex with them, but that says "no" to sex.

It's stupid, of course. It's a fantasy, and an oximoron in itself, wanting to have sex with a man that says "no" to sex with you, but who also wants to have sex with you.

But that's the female version of "The Unicorn".

When a woman, any woman, asks you "do MEN never say no to sex", she's not asking about MEN in general, she's asking to YOU. She's intrested in you, sexually but also romantically.

She wants to know if you NEED a romantic, intelectual and emotional conection in order to have sex with a woman, because if you don't, that means she having sex with you won't mean anything more than sex for you.

And, of course, you don't.

You're a man, not a woman. Your sexuality is different than her's. There is a level of disconecg between a man's sexuality and his emotions most women will never experience, unless of course... They have a lot of fucked up previous experiences with men that leave them irreparably damaged on an emotional level.

That does not happens with men. Sex doesn't hurt men like it does to women.

Have you ever heard of a dude being "fuck-zoned"? Of course not.

So what do women want?

Women want relationships, but also, they want the man they desire for a relationship to like them so much as a human being that they are willing to refuse sex with other women, and even herself, and forget they have a penis and a huge libido, and get them to know more as a person, develop an emotional conection, build sexual tension and romanticism, so the sex with her will be special.

And this leaves women extremely confused about some men, and that's why they make wait some guys for sex even when they want to fuck them right away.

What's the difference with the fuckboy?

It's not looks (not always) it's the "vibe" they get from the man.

The difference between the fuckboy and the "relationship material" guy, is that even when the woman wants to fuck both, she already can tell the fuckboy is just gonna fuck her, so she better do it fast and while she can, before the dude moves out.

With the relationship guy, she can "sense" the man is a good one, and she's hoping now he will be, at the end, "the one and only".

Of course, in the modern world, most men are somewhat aware of this, and that's why women playing this game (which I don't really think they do on bad faith TBH) often fail miserably, and they tend to get screwed over by the bad boy, and tossed around by the good boy who, in absense to a sexual reaction on her side, loses intrest and moves on.

But basically, yes...

Women want a man who can "reverse the gender roles" too. They want a man who thinks and feels and lives his sexuality like a woman.

TrueNeutral10 · 2023-05-27T08:58:55+00:00

orbstnedifnocdesab · 2023-05-28T11:04:01+00:00

that only happens to facially 7+ men

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-05-27T21:38:08+00:00

Ah yeah, I am willing to spend money on a date even if he says he's broke or "thats too expensive". Immediate response is: I'll pay for it!! If I am really into a guy especially early on.

I think men should seek out women who offer to pay for things-- it is a very good sign if she offers to pay for movie tickets or to go to a restaurant if you say you aren't feeling it. I wouldn't expect this behavior on a first date though, but by 3rd or 4th she will start offering to pay for stuff rather than splitting the bill if she really wants to be with you. I split the bill for my first date/hookup with my current BF. I didn't care.

MasonSub4 · 2023-05-28T00:56:18+00:00

That's not love that's just lust, Chads get that treatment on the daily and from different women too

FortniteAbobus · 2023-05-29T13:23:08+00:00

True.

BufferG108 · 2023-05-29T22:09:29+00:00

Not always, love is like that
Love isn't measured by money, but by devotion. Money cannot cover up sins.
Yeah no this one's true to an extent. Respect consent, but constant sexlessness is an issue to discuss.

Title	True love is when women inverse gender roles for a man
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Date	May 27, 2023 7:46 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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