Usually they are anti-natalist so women crying about their maternity leaves or having no job during pregnancy makes no sense but why we see always financial burden are thrown to men and it is justified by novel words created by feminists like "financially attractive". Where men are blamed for their unrealistic expectations!

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/marriage-rates-decline-reason-economically-attractive-men-jobs-income-a9098956.html

Because they can't explicitly show their duality. They'll say "money don't matter.. the guy should be progressive.." but they'll go for a macho guy who can carry burden of these feminists after their 30's. They''ll choose him then cry why men don't do household chores. (Not acknowledging the fact that men do more intense job and they've no energy do unpaid work in most cases and even if this is like that they'll choose "financially attractive men" but not going for an feminist man, who'll be submissive to her and do all chores but the problem is he's not rich)

As someone said :-

women look certain things when looking for a sexual partner, but different attributes when looking for a life partner, this is what makes women seem shallow and picky, for sexual partners women like tall strong hot men this is why women are shallow, for life partners women want dependable and reliable men with good jobs who want to marry and have kids and be a good provider, this makes women picky.

So the worth of a woman in a relationship is nothing in a feminist POV but giving "sex". A man is capable of having a traditional wife as well as Independent. While feminists wants a human bank. I guess they were telling us they are indipendent? Why beg for financially attractive men when you can get feminist guy? It just seems pathetic when a men having same belief as a feminist will just get "sex" in return and nothing else because men are ridiculed for having choices like "financially attractive female". It just makes the patriarchal thought stronger that men are provider. These feminists want selective patriarchy and selective progressiveness and will blame everything on men.

Well a man who earn has their priorities sets too and will have a partner who respects her on having kids and doing chores. When a men goes for a woman who fullfill his needs don't blame men. Blame your mentality and lies you've been fed.