Male domestic violence deaths become focus in Cornwall

Vanriel · 2023-08-22T06:12:47+00:00

Glad that it's getting more light shone on it but I have to admit it irks me that they put in about men not defending themselves because of their values and did not mention anything about how easy it is for the abuser to make false accusations against their victims.

ERiC_693 · 2023-08-22T19:19:14+00:00

I wish they'd stop only focusing on men not reporting due to stigma. This follows this patriarchal socialization model. We need to be aware that men who do report are often seen as abusers and put into a perpetrator programme which conditions him to stop battering his female partner. It's classed as he's been battering her and that's why she because aggressive. This is in no way scientific, it is pure ideology from lesbianic feminists.

The problem for male victims is multi faceted, it's not just that men don't report its the often get blocked, blamed or put into a vetting programme as a perpetrator.

ZekalMacabre · 2023-08-22T21:13:58+00:00

"chink in the chain of support for males"

WHAT chain of support for males? There ISN'T ANY.

That's the problem!

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-08-22T02:45:24+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Great to hear that Cornwall is stepping up.

This seems to be the refuge:

https://www.supportincornwall.org.uk/kb5/cornwall/directory/service.page?id=N6HWGAfy_IM

https://nordahouse.org/

Aluto7 · 2023-08-22T08:24:23+00:00

Not that that topic is at all "good", but at least it's getting recognition and being taken serioisly.

griii2 · 2023-08-24T15:32:56+00:00

A 2016 label would go a long wY here.

walterwallcarpet · 2023-08-23T09:44:40+00:00

Worth a read: https://stevemoxon.co.uk/partner-violence-femalepredominant-aetiology/

antifeminist3 · 2023-08-26T01:08:32+00:00

Decades ago, domestic violence was equally ignored for men and women. Feminists created a double standard by only raising awareness for women. When you raise awareness for women and de-stigmatized the issue for women, women are more likely to come forward. If you don't raise awareness, women are less likely to come forward. When feminists de-stigmatized the issue for women but not men, and raised awareness for women and not men, then women are more likely to come forward.

Feminists created the double standard, and they low-key blame men to 'toxic masculinity' when the same situation existed for women decades ago.

Evey man know defending yourself with result in police arresting the man-the victim.

2023-08-26T11:59:56+00:00

I lost nearly lost my uncle to DV when his girlfriend slit his throat and I also lost a colleague who's wife killed him in an argument.

We definitely need more refuges like this.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2023-08-22T02:37:19+00:00

Cool.

Elle_l8 · 2023-08-29T20:52:23+00:00

😂😂😂😂

Current_Finding_4066 · 2023-08-29T22:44:33+00:00

"Sue McDermott said men still do not report domestic violence as much as women because of the stigma"

The reality is that they are being treated poorly.

DougDante · 2023-09-01T02:29:08+00:00

Tweet and gettr with me to seek justice:

"[Perhaps] because we recognise females as victims, our responses are at a different standard than previously for male victims" Michelle Davies, domestic abuse strategy manager for Safer Cornwall.
@10DowningStreet @CPSUK @Conservatives @UKParliament https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-cornwall-34696595

and in reply:

Reddit censored version:

A homeless advocate for man and boy victims of Domestic Violence reports "The constant revictimization caused by the disgraceful gender bias in this [#DomesticAbuse] sector" https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/w6znnc/united_kingdom_a_homeless_advocate_for_man_and/

Title	Male domestic violence deaths become focus in Cornwall
Author	warmy1818
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Date	August 21, 2023 11:18 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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