How do I get over oneitis in a relationship? Im aware of redpill truths but I can't seem to internalize it. Im head over heels for my girlfriend. I know she's not mine forever and she could leave anytime. I know she could cheat. I know I could get fucked over. I feel like it just makes me more paranoid and untrusting of my girlfriend.

I get jealous, insecure, and sometimes clingy. The sex is great, she's a good person, independent, great paying job. I lift, take boxing, started a small web design business, transitioning to a well paying career and set goals for myself. I try to focus on increasing my value. Maybe i have low self esteem or insecurity issues.

Can someone set me on the right path?