Insights

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-10-21T07:37:15+00:00

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NagoyaAnnoya · 2023-10-20T22:15:44+00:00

These are all generalizations based on personal experience, so take it for what's it's worth. As much as I think some passport bros do a lot of damage I'll give you a few tips. Stay away from western Europe and Scandinavia, Sweden and Norway are considered some of the most feminist countries in the world, if you go to Asia watch out for scams the Japanese don't scam too much (I'm Japanese) but feminism is creeping into the cities more and more here. South east Asia is scam central. Especially Vietnam, You can do well but be picky. South American women can be great but a little fiery. They love to be put in place and put up a fight, Caribbean women tend to be after visas, and Russian women I can't comment on as I've never dated an eastern European woman, though I have dated the rest, through a light career in physics before I started to teach. I did settle down and get married to a rural Japanese woman who was very old world and hates feminism.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-10-20T22:29:12+00:00

Bro.... there's no rush. Don't like your options here... travel.

The point of travel should be to see the world, first. You're too bored to see the world? Really? Everywhere you go, you will bed a dozen women if you want. Once you've done that in 6 different countries, then come back and tell us how bored you are with your options.

Family is conservative... show them your options here and ask which winner they think you should shack up with. People don't really understand what's up today so they don't believe it.

Set your OLD location to whichever cool place you wanna go... start chatting up 2 or 3 cuties... go there with very...very low expectations (most of them just want money) and have a blast.

Rinse and repeat till you're bored of the Spanish riviera and Santorini....

reverbiscrap · 2023-10-21T04:12:06+00:00

Do not bring them home. If you do this, you are leaving your birth nation and not returning. This strikes out most scammers out of hand.

Mysterious-Spot6529 · 2023-10-20T22:21:40+00:00

Where do you live? Lots of more conservative or moderate women out there. You just have to be and look in the right places. It's also not true that all of the attractive ones have OF. I'm about an 8-9 to men who like very thin women with nice butts and small boobs, but I am extremely modest. I would never even let a trusted partner take a picture of me naked even if it was on a Polaroid that he promised to burn as soon as it developed. We do exist.

I was raised in a liberal metro area and got the modern programming that most liberal metro women got. It resulted in not being able to attract a decent guy who wanted kids until I changed my behavior and demeanor. I had to learn to be less aggressive, more feminine, and more concientious about how I was behaving, and it wasn't easy to come to terms with how I had screwed screwed up in my 20s. Another big thing that I started doing was working on empathizing with men more deeply. We are taught not to, and it's a shame. I'm painfully aware of the mistrust that men carry towards modern women, so I do my best to make it clear that I understand. I told my BF early on that if I ever get married to a guy, I will be the one to insist on a prenup (since I know how common it is to get financially ruined by divorce).

More women are waking up like I did, but it usually doesn't happen until their mid 30s when their biological clocks start ticking and they go into panic mode about having kids. The growing community over at the redpillwomen sub is all you need to see to know that the paradigm is shifting and will continue to shift towards the center. The pendulum always swings when the current paradigm becomes dysfunctional.

My suggestion would be to use FarmersOnly or other similar dating sites. Other sites will work too, but make sure you filter for moderates and conservatives, only swipe on childless women who say they want kids and marriage on their profiles, and date your age or slightly up in age. Also, avoid women who have suggestive poses/outfits, or use filters on their photos. Go for the understated, natural, down to earth looking ones.

The other thing I would suggest is to work on letting go of your anger, assumptions, and frustrations. The type of woman you are looking for will sense your resentment and mistrust and will look for greener pastures with a guy with less baggage. Try to get into a positive state of mind and trust that someone compatible does exist.

Title	Insights
Author	Hedgefundbreaker
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	October 20, 2023 9:53 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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