When you first start out, how do you overcome your blue pill hardwiring?

redpilledjoe · 2018-02-08T22:46:04+00:00

Well you go back and analyze everything that happened in your life and how it doesn't match up to anything that you've been taught.

You're supposed to be a gentleman and courteous with a woman, paying for dinner, buying her nice things, trying to win her affection. Then once you do these things she fucks the pool boy while you're at work. And it gets turned around by her to somehow make it your fault, "you never show me you care", "you're never home anymore" bla bla. Because everything you've done is essentially the opposite of what she really wants. She wants to be lead on, teased, fucked around with, all of those things are exciting. If she "has" you then you lose a big part of that.

Realize this: you are living in a very feminine reality. The most it has ever been in the history of mankind. Society is against you, against us at TRP, against men. But the tides are shifting very slowly. It takes time and experience to "unplug". Make your own life and DGAF what anyone else thinks.

the__aggressor · 2018-02-09T03:04:08+00:00

The biggest change for me was when I stopped concerning myself with how people perceived me, and instead focused on what I thought of them. I suspect everything you do is self-censored to conform to what you think everyone expects of you. Instead, just look around and start judging people and create some standards to evaluate them against. Works really well and accomplishes a lot of the frame things taught here.

bupkiss1290 · 2018-02-08T22:08:10+00:00

Experience and repetition. The more you find yourself getting rejected/dealing with people, the more you can weed out some of the BP hardwiring in your head and correct that going forward. If you are sitting around thinking of ways to become RP, you won't change any of your habits.

Act first, think later.

SkorchZang · 2018-02-09T00:46:20+00:00

You're not going to overcome it straight away. At first you try and fake it (and fail all the time even at faking).

This is fine. Good stuff to harden you up.

SeamusAwl · 2018-02-09T02:39:52+00:00

The same way you make any change. You put in the effort consistently over time. Want an aesthetic body? Lift consistently over time. Want to make money? Invest consistently over time. Want to learn a new skill? Practice it consistently over time.

Merwebb · 2018-02-09T03:37:08+00:00

Looking at the outcomes of what I thought was the way to do things. No sex, no respect.

Started trying stuff explained here and now there are changes.

Also gave me a ton of time to adjust

__lloyd · 2018-02-08T22:29:51+00:00

seeing the real thing.

Title	When you first start out, how do you overcome your blue pill hardwiring?
Author	notyourfathersfather
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	February 8, 2018 9:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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