For some reason I don’t find it fulfilling, and have no drive to act upon it. I’m an attractive guy, smart, get tinder matches, good cook, whole nine yards, but my world collapsed this summer when I finished college. I’m fresh out of a LTR from which I was dumped and absolutely devastated. I almost killed myself, went on antidepressants, worked my ass off at the gym, got a full time job, turned my life around completely, and now I want to go fuck around to get it out of my system, assert myself, enjoy myself, and just give myself time to understand who I am and forge within myself a new, stronger identity. But for some reason after I match with these ladies, I have no desire to persue it. Maybe it’s because I feel shitty about having to live at home for the year at age 25? (Didn’t graduate from college till I was 25). Thing is, when I was in my LTR, I wanted to fuck every girl who walked past me. Now, I just want a relationship again. I just need you guys to tell me how to nut up.

TLDR: When I was in a relationship I longed to be single and fuck all the girls I knew I was capable of; now I’m single and just want to find something real, but I know the cycle will continue if I don’t get it out of my system. Any advice?