How to cope with cognitive dissonance

Merwebb · 2018-02-11T15:08:32+00:00

By dropping the Disney narrative

TheMistakesWeMake · 2018-02-11T15:30:39+00:00

Judgement is essentially entering someone else's frame... in that you are hanging around whilst being negatively impacted by someone else's behaviours (rationalising them).

The Redpill objective in this case would be to not choose a woman who was "meh" with you in bed. If you fail at that, then the next pill to swallow is accepting womens' nature and walking away.

Dealing with dissonance is a waste of time. It's like trying to argue that the sky isn't blue... haven't you got better things to do?!!

brinkleybuzz · 2018-02-11T17:04:48+00:00

How to cope with cognitive dissonance

By judging women on their actions, not their words.

I don't give a shit about a woman says to me and don't assign much value to her words. I judge her by how she treats me.

dontbedenied · 2018-02-11T15:48:36+00:00

This article is a classic. I've read it several times as well and think about it on a regular basis.

Granted this is a rather extreme example, as most girls don't do gang bangs. But I'd wager that almost every girl with a promiscuous past that settled for a Beta Bucks husband didn't give her sexual best to him.

You have every right to be judgmental, just like women do. Use that judgment to decide whether to LTR a girl or marry her. But you cannot turn a ho into a housewife, period. Likewise, you can't marry a ho and then get butthurt about her sexual past.

If your partner doesn't give you passionate sex, that's almost certainly the fault of the man. He simply doesn't turn her on like Chad does. She can't force herself to want to fuck him like a porn star. Desire cannot be negotiated.

Title	How to cope with cognitive dissonance
Author	Heinzdoofens
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	February 11, 2018 2:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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